I managed to use the ancestry site free for just 1 day, before they closed it down but I did find my gg grandmother on the 1891 census , She was Eliza Weston born in Mayfield,widowed aged 59, living at Argos hill grocery shop, Mayfield.I have been told that her husband John died in 1889 and is buried in St Dunstans Mayfield.
My query is that I have never been able to find her or him on the 1881 census, I have been searching for ages to find out if they had other children other than my G grandfather Luther, he was born in 1866 at Flimwell. In the 1881 census Luther shows up living with his Uncle Aaron Weston at Argos mill, Mayfield.
John was born in Mayfield in 1834, on the 1851 census he was at Argos Mill, he married Eliza in 1855, the only family that might fit on the 1881 census, is a John Weston, born 1834 but at Newick, grocer and carpenter,with 2 children , Mary 19 and John 17, he's down as married, if it was Eliza surely she would show up somewhere.
Any ideas or help would be much appreciated, this has been a bit of a brick wall for sometime,
many thanks Jean.