I do have marriages traced for the girls and quite a bit of info on them & their children.
The adopted one is a mystery to me, this was overheard in 1949 when a cousin of my mother (from Canada) came to visit us.
I heard mother remark to him, "..oh, they adopted the Paddison boy, did`nt they..." this of course meant nothing to me then, but the name of Paddison remained in my memory, so that when I began to research my family, I had a few names in my memory to start with,
The cousin who visited, I only knew of as Charlie Herd (or could it be Heard?) I never saw him again, but when he had returned to Canada he had arranged for food parcels to be sent to us, and I was also writing to a cousin (mine, I don`t know) I never knew her surname or where she was connected to my family. My mother took charge of mailing the letters (obviously did not want me to know their surnames or where they were)
how I wish I knew now, but I did not ask questions then, this was not encouraged by my mother!
Cousin Charlie had asked if my brother could go with him to Canada for a visit, but a very definate NO was the answer from mother, the correspondence soon stopped after that year, by her? she did not want questions asked or answered, so the family remains a mystery to me.
I have been receiving valuable information from Karen on this site, I am so grateful to her, I now know about the marriage of my gt aunt Laura Gagan, she married a Lawrence Yokker, a name I have been so far, unable to trace the origin of. Hopefully, some progess will now be made.