hi leonie,sorry i've only just back to you only been busy with the footie.i'm afraid i am letting things slide at the moment but i have been trying to trace a joseph fokinther born circa 1844,i found a marriage in stockton in 1866 but there was only 1 woman's name&2 meni found him on the 81 census,then in 1904 there was the death of joseph falkington in middlesboroughi think it maybe oneand thesame person but can't be sure i will keep you informed with any more details if i get anymore best wishes josie