Don't know if this helps, but here all the Gowers I find in Stebbing, 1841
Unfortunately 1851 census is lost.
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 6 p6
No Address
Elizabeth Gowers, 35
William Gowers, 14
John Gowers, 12
Elizabeth Gowers, 7
Frances Gowers, 5
Hannah Gowers, 2
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 7 p8
No Address
John Gowers, 55, Ag Lab
Sarah Gowers, 50
Ann Gowers, 15
William Gowers, 12
Robert Gowers, 12
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 12 p17
No Address
John Gowers, 20, Ag Lab
Elizabeth Gowers, 25
Both b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 12 p18
No Address
Thomas Gowers, 25, Ag Lab
Eliza Gowers, 25
Eliza Gowers, 5
Sarah Gowers, 3
Elizabeth Gowers, 1
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 13 p20
No Address
Philip Gowers, 45, Ag Lab
Sarah Gowers, 50
George Gowers, 20
Elizabeth Gowers, 20
Samuel Gowers, 15, Ag Lab
Emma Gowers, 14
Eliza Gowers, 10
Next door:
Esdras? Gowers, 40, Shoemaker
Elizabeth Gowers, 30
Samuel Gowers, 15
William Gowers, 5
George Gowers, 3
Caroline Gowers, 1
Next door:
William Gowers, 65, Shoemaker
Ann Gowers, 45
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 15 p24
Hill Farm
William Gowers, 25, Ag Lab
Mary Gowers, 25
Thomas Gowers, 8
Ann Gowers, 8
Joseph Gowers, 1
Infant Gowers [female], 2 days
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 16 p25
Lubbin Hedges ?
James Overall, 65, Farmer
William Overall, 25, Farmer
Sarah Gowers, 20, Female Servant
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 25 p3
Mill Lane
Thomas Gowers, 45, Ag Lab
Susan Gowers, 45
James Gowers, 20, Ag Lab
Charles Gowers, 15, Ag Lab
Caroline Gowers, 13
Thomas Gowers, 9
Eliza Gowers, 8
Alfred Gowers, 6
Sarah Gowers, 3
All b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 28 p10
Village
Thomas Gowers, 70, Ag Lab
Jane Gowers, 30
Both b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 29 p11
Village
Hannah Gowers, 50, Dressmaker?
William Gowers, 13
Both b. Essex
1841 Stebbing HO107 333_13 34 p22
Vicarage
William Gowers, 25, Male Servant, b. Essex
Regards CP