Hi Jane, Hope you're still around after all this time!
Lewis Stallwood (1891 census, married to Lydia, loads of kids, Charlton Cottage) was living next door to Patrick and Alice Lynch. Alice, nee Stallwood, was my great grandmother. Her father died in 1865 (of a broken leg

) about two weeks before she was born. I assume Lewis and Alice were probably cousins. I know my side was connected with the bootmakers at the Sandhurst Academy.
I've been trying for over twenty years to find out more about her. The census for 1881 has the surname as Slateword (the enumerator's mistake rather than a transcription error) which took me years to find out. I have birth and death certificates for her and the death certificate of her husband but I've never been able to trace their marriage. They weren't living at that address in 1889 but certainly didn't seem to venture far from the Camberley/Aldershot area. My mother remembers her as a "lady" and insists she must have been married to Patrick. Sadly he died young in Fareham Lunatic Asylum after having a stroke at the age of 42.
Anyway, would be delighted and amazed if you have any further details on them!
Mandy