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Offline alf

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Promise to help
« on: Tuesday 22 November 05 06:49 GMT (UK) »
If people promise to get information for you and then they DO NOT, why did they offer to help in the first place ?.  You get your hopes up, hopefully new information arriving, then, nothing not word saying could not do it.  Has this happened to any one else?

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Re: Promise to help
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 24 November 05 23:03 GMT (UK) »
We all have good intentions to help, but sometimes peoples circumstances and their priorities change. Please do be patient, and keep trying and retrying. Sometime in the future the information you want will materialise. Perhaps if you post details here again of what you need help with,  something will turn up.

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Re: Promise to help
« Reply #2 on: Friday 25 November 05 12:30 GMT (UK) »
Well said Otto i myself have been guilty of offering to help and then not comming through my mum has been really ill i am still looking after her and i feel rotten for letting 2 people down but i havent forgoten them and i will try my best to keep my word .

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Re: Promise to help
« Reply #3 on: Monday 28 November 05 16:11 GMT (UK) »
Sometimes people genuinely forget due to life's other distractions...work, children,etc

I am guessing that this was in relation to your earlier post about the McCormick Headstone at Killinchy NSP?... the book I have lists the following...hope it helps...

"Erected by Henry McCormick of Ballydorn in memory of his grandfather Samuel McCormick, died 31st October 1870 aged 75 years.Also his grandmother Catherine McCormick,died 17th May 1873 aged 77 years. Also his father James McCormick died 1st Sept. 1904 aged 78 years. Also his mother Mary McCormick died 7th May 1906 aged 74 years. Also his uncle William McCormick died 18th Jany 1918 aged 88 years. Also his beloved wife Sarah McCormick, died 3rd Mar. 1925 aged 55 years.Also his brother William McCormick died 3rd April 1927 aged 61 years. Also above Henry McCormick died 24th Nov. 1948 in his 86th years"

Incidently on the edge of Teievenadarragh Wood in Loughinisland there is a grave of a Brian McCormick who was a volunteer in the Killinchy contingent of the United Irish men. He was killed by Royalist forces  as he tried to make his way home after the Battle of Ballynahinch and was buried where he fell. Bit of a local story, not too many know about it, a headstone was erected some years later.