Hello,
According to Staffordshirebmd.org.uk the marriage suggested above was in Kingsley(in the north of the county), and Joseph and Ann are there in 1861.
In 1861 there is another JH however in Burntwood, a wheelwright, born Handsacre(which is next to Armitage), with wife Mary from Atherstone Warwickshire. No children.
The ref for this is RG9/1973 Ed 14 folio 89 p1. He is the right age.
In 1871 the family are in Hamstall Ridware - with 4 children.
Ref RG10/2917 Ed 5 folio 67 p5
Joseph is transcribed with surname Harney to complicate matters.
I hope this does not confuse you.
Handm