Many thanks for that - yes, the Anslows had a connection to the Eyton family. Samuel Anslow owned Donerville House pre 1840 and an Eyton lived there in 1841 or 51 (I forget which without checking). When Samuel left (sold?) Donerville House he went to live at Eyton Farm, Eyton on the Weald Moors, where the Eyton family also lived.
Susan