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The Common Room / Re: Robert Patrick FLUDDER burial in Wolverhampton 1942
« on: Wednesday 13 January 16 08:09 GMT (UK) »
I have never actually seen the death cert, his son has it and being an old man with dementia is going to take a while for him to find it! This is now in hand.
So as not to leave you all guessing it seems that Robert was a naughty boy, he married (Catholic) and then strayed (apparently his son was only 3 yrs old & his mum said his father was dead). The address where he lived in Deptford was never bombed and the flats stood intact at the end of WW2. I can only think that if he was living with another woman close by then maybe that place was bombed? either that or he 'pulled a fast one' and lied about his circumstances to the Quakers! He was only 46 yrs old when he died so I wouldn't have thought he would have been seen as elderly although he did have a condition which would have crippled him & eventually killed him!! Could this be the reason for Quakers benevolence? His son has always wanted to visit his dads grave but didn't have a clue how to find it & his mum simply wasn't talking about it!
I want to thank everybody for their help and suggestions & will try to keep you all updated
Lei
So as not to leave you all guessing it seems that Robert was a naughty boy, he married (Catholic) and then strayed (apparently his son was only 3 yrs old & his mum said his father was dead). The address where he lived in Deptford was never bombed and the flats stood intact at the end of WW2. I can only think that if he was living with another woman close by then maybe that place was bombed? either that or he 'pulled a fast one' and lied about his circumstances to the Quakers! He was only 46 yrs old when he died so I wouldn't have thought he would have been seen as elderly although he did have a condition which would have crippled him & eventually killed him!! Could this be the reason for Quakers benevolence? His son has always wanted to visit his dads grave but didn't have a clue how to find it & his mum simply wasn't talking about it!
I want to thank everybody for their help and suggestions & will try to keep you all updated

Lei