Thanks for the info.I will follow follow through on that.I had rather suspected that Jane had taken Thomas to Mendham (she was from St.Cross) because the father of Thomas William was Samuel Self the person that Jane married in London in 1868.He originated in Mendham but was in London in 1851 and 1861.Jane was also in London in 1861.My thinking was that she had gone to Mendham because Samuels family was there.As it turned out Jane had other connections to Mendham, the Mitchell family who were from St. Cross, and also there were Barber family members living there.So I can not assume she was involved with the Self family.What I find interesting is that throughout his life Thomas as he moved from one border village to another was very often living in close proximity to Barber family members and yet I have never found them inder the same roof, as a witness to Thomas's marriage, or even the use of family names .The Mitchell family had other 'boarders' and a 'nurse child' or two who stayed with them into adulthood and beyond.Perhaps they actually became family.Anyway, a very interesting social issue that I must explore.

Pauline.