
, Neil, mfcnt and chrisane I can not tell you how grateful I am for your help it's absolutely mind blowing what you have found for me.
The name of the boat they traveled on is now going to be something for me to look at and find out more about.
I am going to be speaking to my cousin,who was also in on the conversation with the elderly relative when she spoke about "someone" emigrating, asap this morning to ask her about a phone call she got about 15/18 months ago (her son actually took the call but he couldn't remember an awful lot and didn't have presence of mind to ask key questions such as a name!!!) from a man who purported to be calling from Australia, this may be something but it also may be nothing.
I'm sorry its taken a few days to reply to your posts as at work we are moving into a brand,spanking new hospital and its been a bit of a logistical nightmare to get clinics set up and ready for Monday and this is another area, despite the hard work, I am so excited about.
Once again thank you so so very much there really aren't the words to make you understand how grateful I am.
Polly.
Oooh this is where I show my total ignorance and say (I am renown for my total lack of geography) are we talking about Australia or New Zealand

cos I thought Brisbane was Australia but then you spoke of Rockport which I also thought was in Australia but then you spoke of Christchurch which I associate with New Zealand. I so sorry to appear to be so thick.
If only you could see me sitting here grimacing and pulling an ashamed face at my ignorance and hoping you don't think badly of me for it