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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Saturday 17 January 15 15:55 GMT (UK)  »
Hi
This is amazing - I'm really impressed that you've gone back further than we've ever managed to do with the Heaffey's in Ireland. We really had given up! Would love to get in touch via Facebook but not sure how we can do it as sure they won't let us swap too much information on this site, so try googling Facebook and Creakey crafts as I do craft fairs etc under that name that might get you to my Facebook site. Other than that a clue to your Facebook page would help me find you. I was born on 12 December in Hammersmith, but I don't live in London now. Did you manage to look at the Woodburn family tree on ancestry? The tree isn't called  the heaffey family tree as my sister set it up and she decided to use my name
Ps I'm a bit of a novice as regards Facebook as I've resisted it until a couple of months ago when I succumbed as I felt it might help me promote my crafts! 
Good luck with the Facebook search.
Diane W


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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Thursday 15 January 15 15:09 GMT (UK)  »
Hi Joan
I did check last night one was Mary the other looks like Percival to me but of course that could be another name of Robert's. it is exciting because I now know I have lots of long lost cousins in the UK and possibly Australia. I will also forward all of this to my cousin Jane in Wales because she has been interested and she's the daughter of Jack my dads elder brother, although  I don't think she has any  more information than we already have.
I have 2 sisters Chris born in 1954 and Karen born in 1962. We have nominated Karen as the family archivist so she has all the paperwork!

Speak soon.

Di

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Wednesday 14 January 15 22:27 GMT (UK)  »
John William, Jack and Catherine's father, was my great grandfather. Jack  was his youngest child and Jack's second son Arthur was my father. Jack died when my father was a young child, and my grandmother Jack's wife Alice married again. I don't think my father knew much about his father's family and my grandmother Alice didn't like people knowing she had been married before! I was also born in December 1950 so we are cousins of some sort but no good at calculating second, third, removed etc. if you look at the Woodburn family tree on ancestry that might help you, I think my sister has made it a public tree so you should be able to view it.
I can't really tell you much more about John William and his wife Catherine that hasn't already been said on this site.  He isn't always consistent about where he was born ie Ireland/London. Catherine always says she was born in Nova Scotia but I've never been able to trace her birth there, but I think that's probably because I don't know where to look. I think she's likely to have Irish ancestry, or even maybe Scottish. The name Harper certainly appears in both countries. Once married they then travelled with the army to many parts of the world, the West Indies first, where a couple of the eldest children were born. It's the Irish Ancestry that's so difficult to trace. I think Mallow, Doneraile and  Castlepooke are all significant and if you Google Heaffey and Castlepooke in 1833 you should be able to read about the murders and trial. It's very interesting I don't know if they are direct ancestors of ours but I do think we are related to them. Heaffey is not a popular name in Cork where currently they seem to be know as the Cork Mafia! When we went there so taxi driver told us he wouldn't have picked us up if he had known that was our name! He was serious!
I really don't hold much hope of tracing the family back before the marriage of Catherine and John William in Halifax, Nova Scotia, but new records are added all the time so who knows maybe one day. Good luck and thanks for the information.

Di

Ps on Norah's workhouse records there were 2 children mentioned will have to look again but I think they had different names from the 3 you mentioned. I've also found Catherine's death record.

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Monday 12 January 15 10:20 GMT (UK)  »
Hi
I don't think he confused me at all, as I think we're all pretty confused by the Heaffey's!!!
It does however answer one question in the 1911 census women were asked for the first time how many children they had given birth too. Catherine (harper) said 10 and that 3 were still alive. I always thought this was Jack ( my grandfather), Victor and Catherine but I now know it wasn't Catherine but Albert. I'm not sure when Albert died but I think he may have been the only one to have survived his parents who both died in the early 1930's in their 80's! It just seems strange that they lived so long when most of their children died so young!  Thanks for the post every bit helps in this very intriguing story. I will post if I find anything else but to be honest we may have reached the end of the line.
Di

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Sunday 11 January 15 19:34 GMT (UK)  »
Hi
A couple of weeks ago I came across a workhouse record for Norah and 2 children so made the connection with her being an illegitimate child of Catherine's, who I think was already dead, but you might be able to confirm this. The only other thing I can really add to all these posts is that I have begun to wonder if a David Heaffey born about 1823 is related in some way as the dates seem to tie together and also he lived in Westminster. I don't think it's his father as he's another William John! I got this from the Canadian marriage certificate. The spelling of David Heaffey has also been corrected on one census by someone and on another it's spelt Hayfie. It's all a bit of a nightmare really.  It would be lovely if we could get back further but not hopeful.  We've got so many strands of other parts of our family history that links us to Ireland especially Cork and we just get stuck.  I will keep you all posted but don't  hold your breaths!!!  Di

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Tuesday 14 January 14 15:45 GMT (UK)  »
Hi the family certainly lead us a merry dance all over the globe! All sorts of things seem to tie in       
but I don't understand who William  John Smith Harper is,are we talking about William John Heaffey?If so I've never come across Smith as a possibility. Have you got access to ancestry.co.uk if so have you looked at the Woodburn family tree this might help. I've got the marriage certificate for Heaffey and Harper in Nova Scotia but it hasn't helped me go any further back. My sisters and I visited Cork a couple of years ago without much luck. we did visit Castlepooke - scene of the murders and people in and around Cork are certainly not keen on the name Heaffey, one cab driver even said he wouldn't have picked us up if he'd known what our name was! We've also been to the archives in Kew which we found very difficult and actually again achieved nothing. I suspect I've got the same military records you have except possibly Albert. One of the big problem for us is that because my father Arthur was only 6 when Jack Heaffey his father died he knew very little about his family history. You're right about Ireland makes it very difficult to trace anything. I thought Canada would be easier but it hasn't proved to be although I didn't try very hard. At that stage we were hitting brick walls, mostly Ireland, with not only my fathers side the Heaffey's but also my mother's the O'Regans!!! So I sort of gave up. Do keep in touch though one of us might have a break through at some point! Let me know if you can't access ancestry. Good luck Di

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Tuesday 14 January 14 10:47 GMT (UK)  »
Hi I think we had all but given up on the Heaffey's. I can't say that Albert was one of those we did much research on as we are more interested in Jack who is our grandfather. However, my sister has all the records so she's going to see what she has and I'll get back to you.

If you have any further info re Jack and Albert's parents we would be very interested because we couldn't even find their births. Too much travelling around and nearly all their sons died young, including our grandfather Jack.

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Tuesday 10 August 10 21:35 BST (UK)  »
Hi Clare nice to hear from you again. Like you I cannot trace Catherine the daughter's marriage or death so god knows what happened to her. Norah must be one of Victor's children she certainly isn't Jacks. We do keep trying don't we! There aren't  many Heaffey's in Ireland even, as I said before its often spelt Heaphy and the ones still there are gangsters!!! If I could get hold Of JW's birth date and definite place of birth I maybe have a strong lead re the family in Doneraile which is only a few miles from Mallow. I have tried to find his army records on the national archives site (horrible site to navigate) but have had no luck so maybe a visit would be a good idea. Its good to talk to distant family doing the same research we get very bogged down in Ireland as we are also tracing the O'Regan's and the O'Callaghan's on our mother's side its certainly a challenge. Di

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Cork / Re: Heaffey-Mallow
« on: Monday 09 August 10 11:48 BST (UK)  »
Certainly have never  come across O'Heaffey as a possibility before. JW I know was in the ASC which is the army service corp as were some of his sons. I don't know if this was linked in anyway to an Irish Regiment. As for the Castlepooke if you just google Castlepooke murders you'll get lots of information. When we read about it in newspapers of the time there was some suggestion that the wrong people had been hung - but who knows. We had a lot of negative response to the name in Cork as currently the family seem to be the local mafia! Although they spell it Heaphy. One taxi driver said he wouldn't have picked us up with that name and he wasn't joking! I think that like you my family had very little information about previous generations  my father was only 6 when his father died and his mother then remarried. I also don't think you will get very far with JW's wife Catherine Harper as she says she was born in Nova Scotia - I have tried. You can see the marriage certificate on line, it says how in previous correspondence. I'll keep you up to date on any developments but this maybe the end of the line. Di

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