Wow Helen, you have totally surpassed my expectations for help. I had a chance to read backwards from pg 119 of Stockton and I am amazed that you were able to find Eleanor's birth record. It is indeed beautifully written. I guess seeing that her mother's name was Rachel HALL clinched it.
You and Jennifer were right, the BT's are an amazing source of records. I managed to find the remaining baptism records for Eleanor's and Robert's children from the Merrington BT. After Rachel Hall GRAHAM, came:
John GRAHAM baptized 28 June 1821 pg 42 (online page 275).
The record has the father's name as John, possibly in error.Buried Ferryhill 13 June 1824 Infant pg 36 (online page 306).
Elizabeth GRAHAM 25 Dec 1823 pg 57 (online page 292).
John GRAHAM (again) 12 Feb 1826 pg 70 (online page 314).
I have a record of this John's marriage: "Registration District Aukland 1848 Marriage Solemnized at The Register Office in the District of Auckland Union in the County of Durham No. 59
When Married | Name and Surname | Age | Condition | Rank or Profession | Residence | Father's Name and Surname | Position of Father |
Nov 25 1848 | John GRAHAM | Twenty three years | Bachelor | Joiner | Coundon | Robert GRAHAM | Joiner |
| Maria JOLLEY | Nineteen years | Spinster | | Coundon | Thomas JOLLEY | Farmer |
"Married in the Register Office before Thomas DEAN Registrar William TROTTER Superintendent Registrar. This marriage was solemnized between us John GRAHAM Maria JOLLEY in the presence of us The mark of X Thomas JOLLEY The mark of MARY Graham."
Eleanor GRAHAM 9 Dec 1827 pg 80 (online page 325).
Mary Graham 22 Sept 1829 pg 91 (onlline page 341).
Buried 8 June 1831 Age 2 Ferry Hill pg 57 (online pg 354).
Mary Ann Graham 1 Jan 1832 pg 105 (online page 356).
Robert Graham 6 April 1834 pg 119 (Online page 379).
David Graham 10 Jan 1836 pg 135 (online page 396).
Ralph GRAHAM 15 April 1838 pg 153 (online page 411)
I also have the birth certificate for Ralph
"Registration District: Sedgefield. 1838 Birth in the Sub-district of Sedgefield in the County of Durham. No. 99.
When and where born | Name | Sex | Name and Surname of father | Name, surname and maiden surname of mother | Occupation of Father | Description of Informant | When Registered |
March 3 1838 Ferryhill | Ralph | Boy | Robert GRAHAM | Eleanor GRAHAM Formerly GRANT | Carpenter | Robert GRAHAM Father Carpenter Ferryhill | March 5th 1838 |
Signature of registrar William EELLS Registrar."
I also believe I found the burial record for Elizabeth GRAHAM (nee HERON) on page 288
Elizabeth GRAHAM Ferryhill June 30, 1822 68 years
The marriage record of John GRAHAM and Elizabeth HERON proves to be illusive. The marriage records from March 1775 to June 1777 seem to be missing online.

Possibly Elizabeth HERON's sister was married to William FORAD? on May 16 1774 on page 30.
Children of John GRAHAM and Elizabeth HERON that I found were born after Thomas were:
John baptized Oct 18, 1781 pg 53.
Ann baptized on Apri 10, 1784" pg 55.
burid July 14, 1787 pg . 65.
Mary baptized on Nov 5, 1786 on pg 62.
Ann (again) baptized June 7, 1789 on pg 66.
Ralph baptized July 29, 1792 on pg 69.
which takes us to Robert which you found.
Is there was any way we could prove one way or another that this Robert isn't the same Robert who married Eleanor?
Thanks again,
Michael.