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The Lighter Side / Re: Balancing A Family Tree
« on: Yesterday at 15:10 »
I guess such historical events can reveal, if a record survives, an ancestor who was lost at sea as a sailor, in the navy, or if an ancestor was in the army and they fought in a historic battle. But I think if they died, their service records were destroyed. I found an ancestor from Oxford who was based in Norfolk in 1797 and Suffolk, and deserted in Sep 1798 in Ipswich. I cannot trace him after that but the Oxfordshire Militia was based in Ireland in 1799, so he may have been recaptured and died in service or of an illness while in Ireland. The regiment was not in Ireland for very long though. He was a serjeant in 1798 and was 33 then, but apparently there was not always a fixed time from entering the army to being promoted back then. Some may have been promoted quickly due to being older or doing something heroic.

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The Lighter Side / Re: Balancing A Family Tree
« on: Sunday 04 January 26 13:53 GMT (UK)  »
I rarely consider what major historic events were going on at the time when I am doing my family history. A distant cousin wrote up about a branch in our tree in rural Suffolk but kept shoehorning historical events into the write up, events that took place in another part of the UK or even abroad. He had got back to 1666 and said "the year the Great Fire of London broke out". I found that irrelevant, as they were in rural Suffolk, not London.

Someone on a FB group found that one of their ancestors owned a few slaves, and were distraught and the findings. Someone else replied with "Who cares?". A bit near the knuckle reply but true. I would be pretty intrigued if it was me. It was history, it happened. I found an ancestor in the 1560s bought a slave.




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The Lighter Side / Re: On this day in JANUARY ...
« on: Friday 02 January 26 13:40 GMT (UK)  »
2nd January 1929, 97 years ago today, the death of my step 3xgreat gran was registered. Died 31 Dec 1928 at Rochford Hospital. I forgot it was the anniversary of her death 2 days ago. 5th January 2026 will be 97 years since she was buried.

She was my 3xgreat grandfather's 2nd wife, and they were buried at Great Wakering, not yet 100% sure if it is the same grave plot but the same churchyard at least. No grave though. I often visit the area due to family being from there and checked the graves, but found several other ancestors/ancestor siblings/extended family members buried there and in nearby villages.

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The Common Room / Re: Census and the homeless
« on: Wednesday 24 December 25 21:15 GMT (UK)  »
I have an ancestor's cousin in rural Oxfordshire in 1851 who was enumerated in a barn, and was described as a "tramp".

I have one ancestor missing from the 1881 census but he was never homeless as far as I know, he was a rural Essex ag lab, and just seems absent in 1881. Maybe he was working away and was not enumerated, or slept in a field on census night.  :-\

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The Lighter Side / Re: Your 2025 FH journies.
« on: Wednesday 24 December 25 18:10 GMT (UK)  »
I had become convinced my gt. gt. grandmother's eldest brother had emigrated to USA;  traces - but no proof.  Her second brother had gone to Canada - lots of evidence.  Then someone on Rootschat gave a link to One-Step Webpages by Stephen P. Morse and I checked the one-step shipping lists.  (https://stevemorse.org/index.html)

And there he was - on a ship in 1836.  "Yes!" I exclaimed out loud, and slapped my hand on the chair  -  so loudly that I frightened the cat and he shot out of the room.

Reminds me of when the contestants on The Crystal Maze won a crystal and all cheered loudly, like they won £1000'000 but all it got them was 5 seconds more in The Crystal Dome. That is how i feel when I find an elusive ancestor, or elusive ancestor sibling, or cousin.

I sometimes take a break from the direct ancestral line and go far and wide.

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The Lighter Side / Re: Your 2025 FH journies.
« on: Tuesday 23 December 25 21:23 GMT (UK)  »
After years of looking, I finally found the grave of my grandfather, after finding a relative on Facebook.

Zaph

A good find.

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The Lighter Side / Your 2025 FH journies.
« on: Tuesday 23 December 25 18:28 GMT (UK)  »
Now that 2025 is almost gone, what have been your major discoveries this year? And/or what new databases have helped you with your FH? Many new Cambridgeshire records are on Ancestry, and of course Suffolk, where about 30% of my ancestors are from.

I was born in Great Yarmouth, Norfolk, to Essex parents with many Suffolk and some Norfolk/Durham/London/Oxfordshire ancestry.

This year I found 2 direct ancestors who spent time in GY, and when I found out, it was like I had won the lottery. One ancestor witnessed a wedding in the town in 1775, and another direct ancestor was stationed in Gt Yarmouth in the late 1790s, and was from Oxfordshire.

And found a Norwich ancestor who witnessed an admin of someone who lived in a village just a few miles NW of Great Yarmouth, and near where I grew up.

And an Essex seaman ancestor William Ingram from Leigh On Sea who was in Cornwall in 1812 when his boat was lost. He had to get another one made and registered upon his return to Leigh On Sea.

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The Lighter Side / Re: Researching Family History Can Be So Tragic
« on: Saturday 20 December 25 19:56 GMT (UK)  »
In regards to illegitimacy discoveries in FH, I find the anonymity of fathers of illegitimate ancestors, (or ancestor siblings/cousins who had illegitimate children) quite fascinating, the unknown man, who could he be? DNA testing is helping people find more fathers of such children, on top of looking for possible fathers through a paper trial such as bastardy bonds, maintenance orders etc.

I read in a book that finding potential fathers of illegitimate children is more likely before the 1834 Poor Law amendment.


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The Common Room / Re: Deaths 2020
« on: Thursday 18 December 25 13:47 GMT (UK)  »
The Ancestry ones go up to 2007 I think, and should give full DOB from 1969-2007, but for 2008 onwards, they are on GRO but give just year of birth. As said there is another index taken from service cards, obituaries and other info etc which is on FindMyPast. I found one for a 2021 death which gave his full DOB.

Some libraries and archive offices have post 2007 GRO death indexes which give full DOB, such as Westminster Archives. I visited there in May this year to get a full DOB for a distant relative born in 1927 who died in 2009.

SO for 2020 deaths for full DOB you'd have to go to one of these libraries, or maybe TNA in Kew.

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