There where two John Standish Curedales, Sean Curedale was the son of John (Sean) Standish Curedale JR. who's father was the John Standish Curedale you know about. John (Sean) Standish Curedale was a member of the old IRA which explains why he was better know as Sean and not John (he was married twice). His son Sean Standish Curedale was my father-in-law, he died a few years ago. I remember the "old man" as his family referred to him, I remember seeing his medals and went to visit him with his grand-daughter (my wife Mary Curedale) once or twice in the state run retirement home where he stayed until his death but by that time he didn't really remember anyone. The Curedale family by nature are a pretty mmmmmmm how shall I put it "standoffish" if they don't know you very well they are not very approachable which is why I'm the one who posted the reply here.
Rob I lost all the details you sent me due to a computer crash including your email addy, I know I should have printed them

but what can I say except oops! Duh! I'm a big noob!