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Good to hear from you, Heather.  For some reason I have great difficulty accessing your replies through Roots Chat.  Could we correspond in future via our normal email addresses?  It would be much easier.  Mine is eileentownsend@btinternet.com.

I'll start with our McBey/McBay line first. 
The first McBey to arrive in this area was James McBey who was chris.  31/8/1729 in the parish of Rathven, Banff, (parents Alexander McBey and Janet Anderson married Banff/Rathven 24/22/1726).  He was a seaman and was put off his ship for disobedience in 1756 at the small fishing village of Miltonhaven, three miles down the coast from Johnshaven.   He married a Margaret Blews from Miltonhaven in 1770 and was joined a few years later by his elder brother John, our ancestor, born Banff/ Rathven on 19/9/1727.  John married Margaret's cousin Barbara Blews/Blues in 1787 in Miltonhaven and their eldest son, your ancestor, James McBey was christ. in Miltonhaven on 4/11/1778.  He died in Johnshaven 13/8/1858 and is buried at St Cyrus.  My ancestor is their second son Alexander chris. Miltonhaven 30/11/1783, who was press-ganged for over 20 years and died in Johnshaven aged 92.
James married Mary/Marion McDonald  and they had three children James ,born 1808, Charles born 1815 and Elizabeth/Betty (actually christened Betty) born 1818.  Betty was the one who erected a gravestone for their parents in St Cyrus kirkyard.  It says   "Erected by Elizabeth McBay in memory of her father James McBay, late of the Coastguard, died Johnshaven 13 August 1858 aged 83 (sic).  Her mother Mary McDonald died 5 July 1857 aged 79.  The above Elizabeth McBay died 20 August 1865 aged 47.  Her brother James died 25 July 1869 aged 61."   James actually died in Sunnyside Royal Hospital (the asylum at Hillside just outside of Montrose). 

James and Mary (McDonald) McBay and their family lived at Tangleha' - a beautiful but very tiny fishing hamlet about a mile north of Miltonhaven built by the fishermen's own hands from the retrieved stones of their village of Miltonhaven which was washed away in a terrible storm in December, 1793.  ( I wrote an article about the tragedy for the "Scots Magazine" some years back.) Eventually they all moved into Johnshaven.

My great granny Mary McDonald McBay of Johnshaven (Mrs Joseph Stephen) was named after her great aunt - your ancestor.

Must dash as we're going up to Kenmore for a few days tomorrow and I've a million things to do this evening.

Hope this has been of some interest.

Best wishes from your cousin,

Eileen.

Hi HeatherConnie -
I am researching my mother's tree and her Stephen ancestors are all from the North East coast of Scotland and have got back, for definite, to a James Stephen who was christened in Catterline on 26/8/1644.  I would be grateful if you could help me get them back any further as I am not sure whether they originated in Arbuthnott or Stonehaven (Fetteresso).  Family lore had it that the Stephens originated in Peterhead and came down the coast in the early 1600s but whether this is accurate or not, I don't know.  Certainly there have been Stephens involved in the fishing in Peterhead for generations so it may well be true.
I would be really grateful for any additional information you may have.
Kindest regards,
Eileen.

Hi - Have just read your query about your Johnshaven McBey/McBay ancestors.  I live in Johnshaven and am also descended from the McBays and have done almost all the descendant family trees back to the original two brothers who came down from Banff/Rathven in the mid 1700s.  Your grandfather Edward McBey was a great character.  Known as "Lang Ned" he was the first Cox of the Johnshaven lifeboat and a very brave man.  If you need any more information I'll be glad to supply it.  Kind regards, Eileen.

Thank you so much once more, Shelleyesq.  I'll definitely look into that website and, hopefully, the other kind soul that you mention might find out a little bit more about Jimmy for us.  I really appreciate all your help and advice.

You're absolutely right about 1907, Jorose.  I have, however, found a marriage for an Adelaide Ann Beeson to a James Lewis Grieg in Lancaster in 1891.  That would have made her only 18 when she married and would she have travelled across to the other side of the country to marry when her mother was still alive?  I doubt it.  I reckon the best bet is your 1911 passenger list when she perhaps travelled out with the Wiggs family.  This would fit in best with the family lore of her having acted as surrogate mother to the other kids after her mother died in 1906.  She would have been 38 in 1911 so I guess she was still young enough to have got married in Canada in the years following her arrival.  Do you know if Canadian marriage records are on line for 1911 and afterwards?   I really appreciate your help and feel I may be getting somewhere at last.