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Ancestral Family Tree DNA Testing / Re: DNA shared matches verses paper trail.
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If you have been as thorough as you can be with the paper trail, have you come across evidence that links your matches' ancestors with your grandfather's cousins?
People who change their names to start a new life often stick with their real date and place of birth, for example. Do you have anything like that?
Sometimes the new name bears some relation to the original name - same initials; using a middle name as a first name; using a mother's maiden name, or other family name from a previous generation.
I think if the matches are as close as 2nd cousin, they are definitely related to your mother. If someone believes you are wrong, they are free to do so of course, but how do they account for the obvious relationship? By which I am not suggesting that you should challenge them, but if they can't /don't present an alternative, plausible explanation to the one you have found, there is no good reason to accept that they are right.
People who change their names to start a new life often stick with their real date and place of birth, for example. Do you have anything like that?
Sometimes the new name bears some relation to the original name - same initials; using a middle name as a first name; using a mother's maiden name, or other family name from a previous generation.
I think if the matches are as close as 2nd cousin, they are definitely related to your mother. If someone believes you are wrong, they are free to do so of course, but how do they account for the obvious relationship? By which I am not suggesting that you should challenge them, but if they can't /don't present an alternative, plausible explanation to the one you have found, there is no good reason to accept that they are right.