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Harriet Ann COBB is shown as my 3rd cousin 3x removed in my tree.   I have some information on her and her children.   I think she may have married twice and had relationships with at least two other men, one of whom was James HARRIS.

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1891 census has a Sarah Thomson born 1849 St Clement Oxfordshire so looks promising

Husband is down as Jonathan Foster Thomson 46 but original reads Forbes from Aberdeenshire

Living Lambeth London with 4 children

Note 1881 census under Thompson but all other years census can be traced under Thomson

Good luck

Sarah’s son Egbert Thomson is staying with Mary Ann Tucker (nee Gadney) in 1901. Mary Ann is 100% my Sarah’s sister so it seems you have closed the case!

In 1871 Sarah is a Servant for Eliza Ward in Long Eaton, Derbyshire. Sarah was born February 13th 1849 in St Clements, Oxford. I cannot find any records for Sarah past the 1871 census and I cannot find a death record either. Can anybody help me find this lady who mysteriously disappears after 1871?

I think it has possibility, but needs some more investigation.
I can’t see the baptism records that Ciderdrinker referred to in post #8.
I think you need to check that it isn’t just an error and should be attached to a Tinniswood baptism on the same day / page.
Do you have Harriet Cobb in Kingston or Surrey area in 1881 census?

William Charles Tinniswood born 1852 Kingston

William Charles Tinniswood (bachelor, upholsterer) 1st marriage 15 mar 1874 Kingston on Thames
To Sarah Smith

1881 census, Hawks Road 1 Excelsior Villas, Kingston on Thames
William C Tiniswood 28
Sarah Tiniswood 26
Charlotte Tiniswood 1
Fanny Tiniswood 2
Willie A Tiniswood 2 months
Charlotte Tiniswood 50 mother
https://www.ancestry.com.au/search/collections/7572/records/21624962

1891 census
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QNNY-G6Z?lang=en

They had a lot of children ----
BIRTHS
- TINNISWOOD, WILLIAM  THOMAS                                  mother - SMITH     
GRO Reference: 1877  J Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 283
- TINNISWOOD, CHARLOTTE  ELIZABETH     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1878  J Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 302
- TENNISWOOD, FANNY  LOUISA     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1879  D Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 300
- TINNISWOOD, MAY  AMELIA     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1882  S Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 321
- TINNISWOOD, WILLIE  ARTHUR     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1881  M Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 329
- TINNISWOOD, MAY  AMELIA     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1882  S Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 321
- TINNISWOOD, SIDNEY  CHARLES     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1884  J Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 316
- TINNISWOOD, HORACE  ARTHUR     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1886  M Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 348
- TINNISWOOD, LILY  SARAH     SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1887  D Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 321
- TINNISWOOD, MAGGIE       SMITH 
GRO Reference: 1892  D Quarter in KINGSTON ON THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 305

DEATH
TINNISWOOD, SARAH       42 
GRO Reference: 1896  J Quarter in KINGSTON-ON-THAMES  Volume 02A  Page 199

William Charles Tinniswood (49, widower, upholsterer) 2nd marriage 1901 Kingston on Thames
To Emma Harris 39 Spinster

I cannot find Harriet in the 1881 Census I am afraid. The best I could give you is that by August 20th 1884 she was back in Benson as she gave birth to her final child with this mystery man. A little baby boy Harry Cobb. He died at 8 weeks of age of malnutrition. I also can’t see the baptism records that Ciderdrinker referred to in post #8. If they could post the link to the records for me I would be really grateful. Interesting you mention the surname Harris as Harriet did marry a man called James Harris. I wonder if there is any link there.