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I am happy for people to use my research to help them with theirs. It's the best and friendly way to share. I do get cross when someone who is the cousin of my brother's second wife takes my entire tree for his own including photographs. Seems that this is allowed on Ancestry.co.uk and I suppose it's difficult to alter it as it would upset the whole applecart. I have had to go private now, which I didn't want to do but every time I put something new up it is immediately taken by this tenuous cousin who obviously has absolutely nothing to do with me. Has anyone else experienced this or am I just being paranoid???