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« on: Saturday 19 November 22 02:57 GMT (UK) »
Hi
I have not written for quite a while
I was adopted in 1957 and a few years ago I found my birth mother.. long story
Anyway she couldn’t really tell me anything I didn’t already know either because she had forgotten or simply didn’t want to tell me
To cut the story short, my wonderful mum ( not BM) told me my adoption was private also funnily enough by a nameless Dr
No money changed hands
The BM very unhelpful
Apparently she mysteriously knew my adopted name as it’s on the birth certificate she registered ( no fathers name) the BM was going to call me something else
She is Jewish as we’re my most loved parents
I spent a long time trying to find more details of Doris Court but no records
She told me (BM) that she was put to work and that Doris Court was a private home and she has no clue who paid
My mum told me that I was supposed to be going to another family but just before I was born the lady was diagnosed with something nasty so they literally got a phone call when I was 2 days old to come quickly if they wanted a baby
Apparently an anti semitic comment was made by whoever took them to see me
BM refuses to name my biological father
The relationship with her lasted a couple of years but we were strangers so I decided to pull away
Luckily I had the most idyllic childhood
Just wish I knew my health records and more about who really did arrange my adoption
Here to support anyone in any way
Lots more happened but I don’t want to write too much