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Ancestral Family Tree DNA Testing / Re: Myheritage chromosome browser
« on: Thursday 08 September 22 14:24 BST (UK) »
Thanks for the responses, looks like I’ll need to loosen the purse strings…
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I agree with all comments
One of my cousins had a father who was a known womaniser and he doesn't like the idea that he might have half brothers or sisters trying to contact him but a generation down is a bit safer ie if it was half nephews or neicesor half cousins who you could approach
Sharing a grandparent is easier to absorb than sharing a parent .
Just from personal experience, I'd tread very carefully here. We've got two similar stories with one family being ok with it and staying in touch; the other family closing down all contact. You never know how people will take the news, no matter how sensitively it's handled. It's more to do with the people themselves and how they see the illegitimacy.
If there's a strong case with DNA to identify the man as your grandfather, do you really need other grandchildren's tests to prove it?
Do you know whether the mother of those people might be still living?
Those are people who have not taken a dna test themselves. They may not be interested in their family history, or understand why anyone would do that. Is there any way way to introduce yourself that doesn't begin with what might be shocking and unwelcome information?
Is there anyone among your dna matches that you could try contacting first as someone who might know them personally?