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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Thursday 09 June 16 22:47 BST (UK)  »
Quote from: ScouseBoy on Thursday 09 June 16 21:51 BST (UK)
What music did you have?

The music in is not published yet as a family friend who is a musician (singer song writer) the song is titled 'life's too short'

The out music was a favourite of my dads 'The Great Escape'

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Thursday 09 June 16 21:43 BST (UK)  »
Hi all, thanks for your support through this sad time, The Funeral went as good as a funeral can go with no issues at all (many eyes watching said relative), excellent turn out and weather with a comforting gathering of family and friends.......
 
 My father is now at rest with a beautiful view of sun rises and sun sets as i saw a stunning sunset from his grave when i went back at night just to check on him :) .
 
 Many kind words were spoken in the service about my dad including a sort of poem written by me (this is totally unheard of me writing anything like this been an engineer) which I'm now wondering if i may post on here, I am no writer by any means

 Again many thanks to all,

Nick

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Saturday 04 June 16 00:52 BST (UK)  »
Quote from: Viktoria on Friday 03 June 16 17:57 BST (UK)
Thank you Nick, many people are thinking of you and your Mum and hoping the funeral is a peaceful loving service and interment which you will remember in the sad time ahead when things calm down and you are in reflective mood.
You have done your best and your Mum is proud of you I am sure and you have done what your Dad wanted . Well done.
Keep in touch because as you know there are lovely people on RootsChat.
We will be thinking of you.  Viktoria.


thank you

nick

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Thursday 02 June 16 21:50 BST (UK)  »
Quote from: kitching on Wednesday 01 June 16 19:23 BST (UK)
Hi
Just checking how you are,

I'm just about on top of all paperwork AND the funeral is next week due to the bank holiday

Kind regards

Nick

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Monday 30 May 16 16:44 BST (UK)  »
Quote from: kitching on Monday 30 May 16 09:17 BST (UK)
Hi
sorry about that,  I hope every thing sorts itself out.
take care

its totally ok, thanks,

nick

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Sunday 29 May 16 23:09 BST (UK)  »
Quote from: kitching on Saturday 28 May 16 21:27 BST (UK)
I agree , ask the funeral director to take possession of the ashes, and only release them to you.
Take care ,

My dad is getting buried ..... sorry i think you have misread my issue

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The Lighter Side / Re: The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Thursday 26 May 16 16:54 BST (UK)  »
Dear All,
 
 Thank you for your words of support and help in this stressful matter, the Vicar is fully aware of the situation and so are several people who will be attending the burial, the Vicar will state in the church quite clearly that nothing will be placed within the burial apart from a rose from my mum, and again at the grave side the same will be stated clearly again, needless to say eyes will be upon her and any and all action will be taken against this family member......

 What I do know after research is it's against the law to do what she wants to do with the ashes without the correct legal documentation AND my consent due to me been the soul 'deeds' holder for the plot. I will also have a calm word with this person very soon, and sadly your right she could come back any day after to do what she as asked to do, Unless caught I can do nothing and I will have to put that thought out of my head or I will go insane, I may come back and let you all now how the funeral went (if thats allowed).

 Again i would like to say a big thank you to all.....


T.T.B.E

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The Lighter Side / The stress is too much and i see no light at the end of the tunnel
« on: Wednesday 25 May 16 00:58 BST (UK)  »
Dear all,
 I have a terrible concern relating to my fathers funeral which is very soon it is so bad for me i am making my self ill over the worry of this action, My mother stated that a person in our family (not immediate family) wishes to scatter some of her fathers ashes in to the grave  when my fathers funeral is taking place, I have bluntly refused permission for this BUT i know the family member will try there best to do it anyway on the day and within the burial or shortly after, I am the soul named person on the grave deeds if this has any weight in stopping her legally, I know my mum does not want this to happen either as she has paid for a double plot for her and her only to rest by the side of my father when her time comes..... can anyone help please I'm sick of feeling this way

 Kindest regards

T.T.B.E.

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