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Hi, I found my birth mother from this forum and this chat thread, so very much appreciate this. I met my birth mum 2 times which was a wonder but she choose not to continue meeting as she found the memory of the time she had to give me up very distressing and also she had not told any of her friends or family of my existence and as she is 78 now then it seemed to much for her. ( she was at Hindhead in October 1965 for 6 weeks or so) I totally understand and it was a miracle to ever meet her at all, but would like to be able to pop in and visit her for a cuppa sometime. I have a friend who is adopted and his mother is also stuck emotionally in that past time.  I have not written this this thank you message until now as i had forgotten the website name and just yesterday i was checking for the word "run" in google and this page with that word was still in the search memory " Mother and Baby Home run by Nuns in Churt" !. I couldnt believe it. Best wishes.

Dear Katheryn Bryant, Thanks so much for starting this thread, for so many years i have been searching for any links to Assisi, as i was born there in 1965, October and adopted and i tried at the age of 18 to search my mother but was told the place had burned down with all the paperwork and 10 years ago i tried through the council services and was told the paperwork was lost. And in-between i searched the internet and nothing until now!. So i contacted the Cabrini society and they said they do have my records but they have such a demand that the waiting time to meet to see the records is 8 months, so i have 7 months to go, if patience is a virtue, i might be a saint by then!. I don't want to get my hopes up to high, it so long ago and i am sure my birth mum has suffered all these years and i cannot mend that but if she knows i was in a loving family and had a good life she might be peaceful and it will be a treat to meet her. It seems very brave to adopt a child,  a real sacrifice, i know she could have married my father but choose not to just because of circumstance, and that was brave as she must have known it would not have been a happy marriage. Anyway i will wait and see if i get to know more. Thanks so much and if you like i will keep you updated. Maybe you knew my mother. Best wishes. Hare Krsna