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The Common Room / Re: Is it the real mother on the baptism record?
« on: Tuesday 01 April 25 20:47 BST (UK)  »
Apologies if my explanation is a bit confusing. In answer to all the questions.

1. There was a family rumour ("suggestion") that the mother on the baptism/birth certificate was not the real mother and that the true mother was this person's youngest sister.

2. The woman on the birth documents disappears after the birth. Never to be seen again in the records.

3. The child goes to live with the woman's eldest sister. The child is initially listed as a border in 1861 but in 1871 census is listed as a nephew.

4. The youngest sister (potential real mother) also lived with the eldest sister and also listed as a boarder. She dies a few days after the 1861 census and the child remains with the eldest sister until an adult.

5. All three women are known to be sisters as I have previous records of them all, both official and personal family records. There is a large age difference between the sisters, the eldest sister was born 1821, the second sister (the disappeared documented mother) born 1823 and the youngest sister (suspected mother) born 1838. There are other siblings as well hence the age range but these are not relevant to the story.

6. The woman recorded as the mother on the birth records, was 33 yo at the time.

As I previously said this was just a family rumour. I asked the question if it was legal to have someone listed on the birth certificates as the mother when they were not. The consensus of opinion is that it is illegal, which is what I thought. The comments made by Stanwix England are valid and it is more than likely one of those outcomes is the true story.

Thanks  :)

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The Common Room / Is it the real mother on the baptism record?
« on: Tuesday 01 April 25 17:22 BST (UK)  »
Hi

I have an ancestor who was born illegitimate in the 1850's. I have a baptism and birth certificate for this ancestor with a mother's name but no father.

The suspicion I have is that the mother shown on both documents may not be the real mother. There has been a suggestion that the real mother is the younger sister of the woman in the documents. The younger sister was a minor 15-16 yo at the time of the child's birth.

The child appears in the 1861 census at the home of the "documented mother's" eldest sister, the youngest sister is also living at the property. The mother is no where to be seen and in fact disappears from the records after the baptism. The child along with the younger sister are listed as boarders with the eldest sister. Sadly the younger sister dies a few days after the census aged 21 yo. The child is then brought up by the eldest sister.

At the time, families and society frowned upon illegitimate births. I know it was common for an illegitimate child to be sent to live with relatives instead of the birth mother. My thought is that the family may have taken this a step further and the mother's were swapped to reduce the stigma of an illegitimate birth by a minor?

Is it legally and/or ecclesiastically possible that a surrogate person could be entered as the mother?

Thanks
100%Gog


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Ancestral Family Tree DNA Testing / Re: Ancestry DNA update
« on: Wednesday 24 August 22 20:34 BST (UK)  »
Hi Gadget,

Just did what you said and it came up with a 91-100% range!

When I first did my tests I was expecting some southern European in the mix because as a family we have a bit of a latin look about us. So surprised to get such high Welsh numbers.

100%Gog

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Ancestral Family Tree DNA Testing / Re: Ancestry DNA update
« on: Wednesday 24 August 22 20:17 BST (UK)  »
Hi

I got my Ancestry update today. No change for me and to be honest I find my percentages a bit dubious.

Wales 97%
England & NorthWestern Europe 3%

I know my ancestors did not move around a lot but 97% seems a bit much, nobody can be that "pure"  ;D

When I first did the test a few years ago I had percentages of Ireland and Scotland in my breakdown but they have all vanished a couple of updates ago.

I did a DNA test with FamilyTreeDNA some years ago, they give me a different breakdown.

England/Wales/Scotland 53%
Ireland 44%
Italian Peninsula <2%
Magyar <1%
Baltic<1%

I am guessing they interpret the results in a different way. Don't know which to believe....any ideas?

Cheers
100%Gog

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Caernarvonshire / Re: Cilmelyn Farm, Bangor?
« on: Friday 13 July 18 11:14 BST (UK)  »
Hi,

I think you are right with the 1930's date as it fits in with the records I have for the farms at Cilmelyn.

There were two farms both of which carried the name Cilmelyn. One was just called Cilmelyn and was with the Owen family (my family) and the other was Cilmelyn (Ysgubor Wen) which was the Williams family (your family).

I have a record from the 1939 register which shows a Hugh and Gwladys Williams and a John K Williams living at Cilmelyn (Ysgubor Wen). Hugh Williams is recorded as a Butcher and John K Williams is recorded as being at school at the time.

As I have said in earlier posts both farms have now gone and replaced by Ysbyty Gwynedd.

100%Gog

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I don't know how true this is but I was told that anything you put into Ancestry becomes the property of Ancestry, which is why you can't delete old trees. This may be incorrect, but as I was told the same about Facebook I think it may be true.

Therefore even if you keep your trees private the information is available to Ancestry to share.

Happy to stand corrected if anyone knows different.

Sue

I read something about that in the links Sandra's sent earlier.

The strange thing is though in this day and age, we get told to protect our personal information and identities yet we all present to the world and his mate up to 300 years or more of our family history :)

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my tree is private but not because I wont share Iin fact most of my photos etc are available on public trees because I have shared them ...........I usually talk to owner before copying to see what relation we are and then I can share info...................what you have to remember is that when you have a public tree on Ancestry if there is a connection even to a private tree it will come up in the Hints and so it isn't that the person with the private tree has just taken your photos etc but been offered them by Ancestry themselves.

To be honest my gripe is not so much the photos are copied its that I receive no acknowledgement or interaction from these people. I think its more of a courtesy thing really.

Private it is then!

Thanks

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I think it is just a case of - if you make your tree public then it is just that, free for anyone to see. There are no restrictions, no rules that if you see my tree I have to see yours. If you dont want all and sundry to see your tree, then dont make it public. Personally I wouldnt put mine on the net at all!

Valid comments lizdb, I agree with what you say. At the end of the day a public tree is open to all. I think its time to rethink my strategy.

Sandra....I think I will go private but I'll give the little tick box a miss.

Thanks for the comments and advice.

100%Gog

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Thanks for the links Sandra, some interesting observations and comments.

Maybe I need to keep my cards or photos and documents in my case :), closer to my chest.

100%Gog

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