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The Common Room / Re: Is it the real mother on the baptism record?
« on: Tuesday 01 April 25 20:47 BST (UK) »
Apologies if my explanation is a bit confusing. In answer to all the questions.
1. There was a family rumour ("suggestion") that the mother on the baptism/birth certificate was not the real mother and that the true mother was this person's youngest sister.
2. The woman on the birth documents disappears after the birth. Never to be seen again in the records.
3. The child goes to live with the woman's eldest sister. The child is initially listed as a border in 1861 but in 1871 census is listed as a nephew.
4. The youngest sister (potential real mother) also lived with the eldest sister and also listed as a boarder. She dies a few days after the 1861 census and the child remains with the eldest sister until an adult.
5. All three women are known to be sisters as I have previous records of them all, both official and personal family records. There is a large age difference between the sisters, the eldest sister was born 1821, the second sister (the disappeared documented mother) born 1823 and the youngest sister (suspected mother) born 1838. There are other siblings as well hence the age range but these are not relevant to the story.
6. The woman recorded as the mother on the birth records, was 33 yo at the time.
As I previously said this was just a family rumour. I asked the question if it was legal to have someone listed on the birth certificates as the mother when they were not. The consensus of opinion is that it is illegal, which is what I thought. The comments made by Stanwix England are valid and it is more than likely one of those outcomes is the true story.
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1. There was a family rumour ("suggestion") that the mother on the baptism/birth certificate was not the real mother and that the true mother was this person's youngest sister.
2. The woman on the birth documents disappears after the birth. Never to be seen again in the records.
3. The child goes to live with the woman's eldest sister. The child is initially listed as a border in 1861 but in 1871 census is listed as a nephew.
4. The youngest sister (potential real mother) also lived with the eldest sister and also listed as a boarder. She dies a few days after the 1861 census and the child remains with the eldest sister until an adult.
5. All three women are known to be sisters as I have previous records of them all, both official and personal family records. There is a large age difference between the sisters, the eldest sister was born 1821, the second sister (the disappeared documented mother) born 1823 and the youngest sister (suspected mother) born 1838. There are other siblings as well hence the age range but these are not relevant to the story.
6. The woman recorded as the mother on the birth records, was 33 yo at the time.
As I previously said this was just a family rumour. I asked the question if it was legal to have someone listed on the birth certificates as the mother when they were not. The consensus of opinion is that it is illegal, which is what I thought. The comments made by Stanwix England are valid and it is more than likely one of those outcomes is the true story.
Thanks
