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A couple of corrections that may help.

Emily Beatrice Robinson

Thomas George d. 1963

John/Hannah - 7 children.  I think you mean 'six other children".

Be assured there was no 'The Cottage' in Galatea Street and no Beilby lived in that street.  In 1952, there were only two T. Beilbys in Charleville.  One lived in King Street, the other, lived in Parry Street.  There was only one Beilby family in town, all members having derived from the original Beilby settler, John Beilby.  I do admire the energy and dedication that has gone into tracking down this elusive Thomas George Beilby and his various relatives - but sometimes the records can confuse, especially where identical names are involved over two generations or when a particular record turns out to have been no more than an April Fool's joke.  The name, Thomas George Beilby, is confusing in Charleville.  By about 1960 there were three members of the extended Beilby family in the town, each of whom bore that name.  They covered three generations and two households.  As for Norah, allegedly of 'The Cottage', as I continued to cast my memory back, I'm pretty sure she had no middle name - nor did her sister, Maryrose.  To attribute to her the middle name of 'Josephine' would have seemed to local townspeople and to Norah herself, insofar as she might have enjoyed the joke, somewhat amusing.  'Josephine' in that town at that time would have been seen as the sort of name one would find in Music Hall burlesque.  There was an old 'tramp' lady in the town named "Jo" - and that was the extent of the name's use.  "Jo" had a horse and cart and collected pigs' slops from cafes and hotels.  She also had a shotgun that she wasn't backward in brandishing at those who might attempt to shoot wild ducks from her billabong.  The Beilby family knew it well.  I had long forgotten the 'engagement' notice of 1952.  The only detail I do vaguely recall is Norah's mentioning to me some amusement or otherwise about 'The Cottage', a name that no self-respecting western Queensland pioneer would have dreamed of using - and certainly not Thomas George Beilby.  He may have named his residence, say, "The Gunyah" - but not 'The Cottage'.  As it happened, his sole Charleville residence in Parry Street had no name.  As for the perpetrator of the hoax, I have no idea who it might have been.  The whole thing cannot have been taken all that seriously otherwise there'd have been some family discussion, some family outrage perhaps.  And given that I was in the alleged fiancé's class at the time, I think I'd have known if Ian Warren had been 'courting' my cousin.  Further, had he been engaged to her, I feel sure he'd have sought my goodwill rather more readily than he did.

And a last thought, for sure:

Anyone with a knowledge of country towns in the 1950's would realize that the 'engagement' joke had a certain malice, possibly unintended.  I do not know.  However, an engagement announced in April of a marriage to take place one month later meant only one thing.  The shotgun.

This has me thinking:

"Engagement Notice     (as hand transcribed from source)
Warren - Beilby - The engagement is announced of Ian Colin Warren eldest son of Mr and Mrs L N Warren of the Gresham Hotel Brisbane
to Norah Josephine second youngest daughter of Mr and Mrs T Beilby of "The Cottage" Galatea Street Charleville. Both are aged 19 and intend
wedding on the 10th of May. Bridesmaids are Rosemary Beilby, Joyce Spinster and Marion Warren. Best man is Dr Simpson of Dr Arriottis Surgery
also Lex Woods and Sid Fitzpatrick; flower girl is un - decided but Asmin Harding is expected to take the part.
Ref The Charleville Times Thursday3 April 1952."

This is sheer nonsense.  I do not recall Norah's (daughter of Thomas Geo.) middle name.  But 'Josephine'?  Sounds unlikely.  She was not the 'second youngest daughter' of Mr and Mrs T. Beilby.  She was the elder of Thos. George's two daughters.  In 1952, Norah was working in the Q.N. Bank in Charleville.  In 1952, there was a young teacher in town called Ian Warren.  However, in 1952, Norah and her father, Thomas, did not live at The Cottage, Galatea Street.  They lived on the corner of Parry and West Street.  In 1952, Norah would have been about 19.  I would have thought Ian Warren would have been a little older since he was teaching Commercial subjects in the Secondary Department of the school at that time.

What is certain is that no such wedding ever took place and certainly I never heard it spoken of - and I was at the house frequently enough.  Were I to take a guess, I'd say that the C'vlle Times notice was a hoax, an April Fool's joke - note the date of the newspaper - 3 April 1952.  What's more Mary Rose was Mary Rose or Maryrose, not Rosemary.  What I could say with certainty is that Thomas George, Norah's father, would have been ropable and ready to take a whip to whoever inserted the notice and to the Editor of the C.T. for publishing it.

So we have an address wrong, Maryrose's name wrong, I expect Norah's middle name is wrong - and how Dr Simpson would seem to have been involved with his name in this notice, I cannot imagine.  I can only assume that the notice got the town either talking or laughing for a day or two and was then promptly forgotten.  It must have seemed quite inconsequential to me since I have absolutely no recollection of it and since Norah and I were very close, an engagement to Ian Warren would have registered permanently since I knew them both.  (As for Norah's middle name, the record of her death in the Queensland Justice Department would set the matter straight.)  Sounds to me as if someone with only a vague knowledge of the personal details of the pair concocted the story.  I see Ian Warren's parents are listed as The Gresham Hotel, Brisbane.  That may be so, but I thought he came from Toowoomba or thereabouts - but on this point I could be very wrong.