Thanks for all your good leads, Steph. As I said, I'm such a novice at this you probably should take things I say with a pinch of salt. On birthdates for Mary Berry Curry, I think I was reading the La Salle County materials wrong--too many Marys!
I would like to see what Richard Foy (or anybody else) has on the Charles/Anthony/Mary siblings. The birthdates range from 1794 (John) to 1828 (Mary). Though certainly not unheard of, that's 34 years of child-bearing. I would love to be sure Rich is correct that they are all siblings. Certainly relatives, otherwise why would Catherine, Bridget and Margaret all wind up in Eagle with Charles & Nappy?
I have a plot-by-plot diagram of the Lostlands cemetery, but the handwriting is so tiny I think I should follow your clues and see if I can find a better version. I never found Charles & Nappy's gravesite when I was there. I now think I see it plotted at the far northwestern corner of the cemetery, which would have been closest to the original church built in 1869, just a few years before they both died. (Makes sense.) I want to see what the dates are (if legible) on the grave marker, since the Rich Foy/Marist site lists birthdates for them as 1813/1814 and 1804 (for both) in different places. I think the
earlier dates are correct: at
www.findagrave.com under Penelope "Nappy" Prendergast Berry it lists 1804 for both of them. Also, a typed Berry family account I have (done in the 1970s, I think) says:
"Charles and Nappy Berry came to America in 1852. Obtained first Homestead land in Illinois in September 1860. Charles died February 12, 1874 at age 70. Nappy died Jun 18, 1876 at age 72. They had 4 children: Patrick, Mary, Dora, Anthony C. Anthony was 14 when they came to America. He was born in Claire Morris, County Mayo, Ireland. Family settled in Eagle Township, LaSalle County, Streator, Illinois."
Also says: "Anthony C. Berry (1838-May 18, 1923) Farmed--received his first land for $1 an acre in 1869. Married 1870 in Peru, IL to Ann Prendergast (1840-Sept. 23, 1922)" For Richard's chart, this history can provide names/dates for all of Anthony C's children and their descendants--but I know that's getting pretty far afield from your family search.
I
know my mother or aunt had a few photos of Berry grandparents, and I think one was of Charles and Nappy. I haven't been able to persuade her to let me look for it, but will see if I turn anything up in the next months. If Nappy is the one in the photo I recall, she's a tiny apple-shaped woman with a big apron tied right up under her chest. Formidable-looking little lady!
I'll let you know if I find anything more....Jan