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Buckinghamshire / Re: Boys home,during ww2 Bourne End
« on: Friday 31 December 10 08:02 GMT (UK)  »
Dear Don

Pleased to be of help. I am sure that this must have been a traumatic time for you and it could not have been easy seeing your friends return to normal home life while you remained behind waiting to be claimed. No school environment can substitute for a happy home but it is good to see you were finally cared for by the first family you were billeted with.

I will certainly pass on your poem to my mother.

After my Grandmother left Homestead Jean did stay with a family in Bourne end (in order to complete her education) however she did not go to boarding school nor was she schooled in Cookham, her home like yours was Homestead.

After the war the home reverted to private ownership so we do not really know what happened to the unclaimed children at this time. My grandmother did live in Ealing. I mentioned your name to Jean however she does not recollect you or Stanis I am afraid.

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Buckinghamshire / Re: Boys home,during ww2 Bourne End
« on: Thursday 30 December 10 17:50 GMT (UK)  »
My Grandmother Mrs. Helen Membury ran Homestead School in Bourne End, my mother Jean Gorham is the niece people in this email chain are recalling.  Mrs Membury died 15 years ago but my mother is still alive and well and living in Suffolk.

We have many pictures of the Homestead School which my grandmother remembered with great affection. I believe the school cook may have been Grace Higgs for a period of time who did have a Mediterranean appearance, she was assisted by Mrs Membury's sister for a period who may have been called Rene.

My grandmother was employed as Matron by the government, the school was set up to care for boys who came from a disadvantaged background (largely from the East end )where it was felt that placement of that child with a "rural" family may have led to child control difficulties. This maybe why your official would not divulge information as this could be deemed sensitive and may have been classified as secret.

Funding for the home was limited and so the children were expected to assist with chores. My grandmother did tell us that the boys at the  home were not generally appreciated by local village grandees, they generally did not like normal boyish behavior considered normal by the rest of us.

I laughed when I heard your description of my grandmother, the short hair and gammy leg were her signature, she walked with a hop! She received a medal for her work at the Homestead, the school closed at the end of the war with the repatriation of children back to their parents. Essentially the school had outlived it's intended purpose, nothing sinister.

I am sure my mother would love to talk to any of the old boys! Does anyone know what happened to Jim Adams?

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