I found the obituary from the San Francisco Morning call, Dec 29 1897.
Mullin-In this city, December 28, 1897. Mary A. dearly beloved wife of Charles Mullin, loving mother of Mrs. Mamie T. Allen and John W. Pinkie C. Charles D. Kittie I, Lillie D. and Jennie E. Mullin and grandmother of Leslie, Viola, and Cecil Allen, a native of Erith Kent, England. Aged 46 years 11 months and 24 days.
Then there is a mass and it states ahe was buried at Holy Cross cemetery. When I was in San Francisco last, I checked at the church and again

the records had been destroyed in the earthquake. I haven't checked with the cemetery but, I think the information may be the same as in the obituary.
This is all the information I have about her. It's puzzling. It would be great to be able to cross the ocean!
Thanks so much for your help!
Patty