It was suggested that I post my friend's TAAFFE info, now that I know where Rathaspick is!
Bridget

, born c. 1826 & Thomas TAAFFE (he appears to have died in Ireland) had at least 2 daughters:
Bridget TAAFFE, born c. 1854
sister, Mary TAAFFE, born c. 1856
There is also an "older" brother to Mary and Bridget called John FLYNN! So, I am imagining that Bridget's marriage to TAAFFE was a 2nd marriage.
The mother Bridget, daughter Bridget and the son, John Flynn all ended up in Brooklyn NY. The obituaries for both Bridgets and daughter Mary mention that they came from Rathaspick, Westmeath, Ireland.
So, if this family rings any bells ... I'd love to hear about it!
Thanks,
Diane