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Australia / Re: John WARD - Wellington NSW
« on: Wednesday 06 November 19 02:05 GMT (UK) »
I'm not related either so really, I don't much care either way. But someone said they were going to have a look at the probate packet and that will probably sort it out either way. I don't want to have any further discussion until the probate packet for John Ward died aged 36 has been checked. I'm not going to dig him up and do a DNA test.
I am not related to the family. I am not drawing any conclusion as to the status of the couple who married in 1855. But you have not shown that the Judith Ward who married in 1855 to William McKenna had been the widow of the chap (John WARD) who died aged 36 in 1853.
I am absolutely sure that the NSW BDM does not have, nor has it ever claimed to have, every bdm record for every bdm event in NSW, particularly for the pre civil registration period.
How sure are you that the only choices anyone has in NSW would be those you have typed up?
JM
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I am not related to the family. I am not drawing any conclusion as to the status of the couple who married in 1855. But you have not shown that the Judith Ward who married in 1855 to William McKenna had been the widow of the chap (John WARD) who died aged 36 in 1853.
I am absolutely sure that the NSW BDM does not have, nor has it ever claimed to have, every bdm record for every bdm event in NSW, particularly for the pre civil registration period.
How sure are you that the only choices anyone has in NSW would be those you have typed up?
JM
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A search of Trove newspapers from 1840 to 1860 shows that the word 'widow' in Australia in those days always meant a woman whose husband had died. I can't find a single article where 'widow' meant a woman separated from her husband and I stand by my statement that it would be illegal for Judith to remarry if John Ward were alive. I also do not believe she lied in order to remarry. It was only a little over 2 years between the birth of James Ward and the remarriage of his mother. What would Judith do if John Ward reappeared to visit his children after she told everyone he was dead! Imagine the scandal. She wouldn't do that. The marriage wasn't secret or shameful. There was a notice in the newspaper. Since John Ward died between 1851 and 1855, these are the choices you have in N.S.W.: John Ward died 1854 infant; John W. Ward died 1855 4 months; John Ward died 1853 age 59; or John Ward died 1853 aged 36. Which one do you think it is? Or, if this whole scenario is too disturbing, you can just believe whatever you like. No-one can make you change your mind. I'm not trying to force you to change your mind. You're free to believe whatever. If you prefer to think he disappeared into the sunset, no worries.