Hi BG.
Are you still searching ?!
I came accross an Edmund Going, son of a John Going/Ellen Hayes on the GenForum Going research page ("
www.genforum.genealogy.com/going"). He had siblings David, Micheal, Judith, and Catherine, the latter apparently baptised in 1835 in Ireland. Did a quick search for James Philip G but nothing came up.
Altough I am now in Somerset, I was brought up in Sussex. My late father Philip Going had a letter from a Florrie Pankhurst in Southampton in 1984 enquiring as to family history, as her "middle son is quite interested". She was the daughter of Thomas Oakley, brother of grandmother Emma Mary Going (ne้ Oakley). Don't know if Florrie or her son would still be around, or how she got on research-wise, or indeed if she was looking at Goings or just Oakley descendants, but you could try looking for Pankhursts in Southampton.
I don't know the connection between my family and James Philip / Edmund, but as I am sure you know there were Goings everywhere in Ireland (especially Tipperary) from the mid 18th century. My immediate line goes back to a Joseph Going in Maldon, Essex (1795-1874), but I (and a member of the Going clan in NZ) are currently try to establish how/when he or his parents arrived from Ireland. There is some contention in NZ as to the Going/Gowan link, and hopefully this too can be resolved soon.
Happy hunting. Adam