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The Common Room / Re: looking for birth mother
« on: Wednesday 30 June 10 21:30 BST (UK) »
Best wishes in your search. I finally got a picture of my mother when I was 60. Be expectant that anyone you trace may not be best pleased to establish contact.
After establishing whether your mother got remarried or changed her name try using 192.com to trace her. You may have to pay a fee. If you do find a possible contact don't go at it like a bull at a gate. Think about how you will establish physical/ telephone contact. I actually confirmed my mother by finding that she had several children after me , and one was on facebook and was a clone. Everybody who saw the photo of my step brother was convinced that they were looking at me. Both parent were dead by the time I traced them but they had left loads of DNA around. I've now found 9 half brothers/sisters of which only 2 wish to keep in contact. Expect the worst and enjoy the best.
Also I found that my father had been a serial bigamist . The grandmother had been a servant at a large house and had run off with the coach driver. Are you able to acccept that any news that you get will not affect you. Personally , I was amused by all the history that I discovered.
After establishing whether your mother got remarried or changed her name try using 192.com to trace her. You may have to pay a fee. If you do find a possible contact don't go at it like a bull at a gate. Think about how you will establish physical/ telephone contact. I actually confirmed my mother by finding that she had several children after me , and one was on facebook and was a clone. Everybody who saw the photo of my step brother was convinced that they were looking at me. Both parent were dead by the time I traced them but they had left loads of DNA around. I've now found 9 half brothers/sisters of which only 2 wish to keep in contact. Expect the worst and enjoy the best.
Also I found that my father had been a serial bigamist . The grandmother had been a servant at a large house and had run off with the coach driver. Are you able to acccept that any news that you get will not affect you. Personally , I was amused by all the history that I discovered.