Hi,
This seems very odd. I found this list,
https://www.milfordhistory.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/all-saints-alphabetical-deceased-listing-apr-2013-1.pdfWhich shows,
Ref No Name DOD Age Burial Date Ashes Burial Year Are Co Row Zone GraveI
1770 John Hakesley 13/01/2012 79 07/02/2012 2012 3 Fa 25 3Fa25a2
but,
Ref No Name DOD Age Burial Date Ashes Burial Year Are Co Row Zone GraveI
1842 Scott Barchard Wilson * 24/01/1923 58 1923 3 G 25 3G25a
Ref No Name DOD Age Burial Date Ashes Burial Year Are Co Row Zone GraveI
1841 Elizabeth Mary Reeves 18/05/2004 0 2004 3 G 25 3G25a
The references are very similar but I'm not sure if John HAKESLEY is in the same column?
This article says "Scott Barchard Wilson is buried in an unmarked grave at All Saints' Church Graveyard in Milford on the Sea. The burial site is situated between the grave of Reeves to the right and the grave of Wilcox to the left, and is so old it is buried beneath the surface" I've no idea what that means.
https://hiaudubon.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/Elepaio75.6.pdfI wonder if James HAKESLEY's reference means he had his ashes placed on or near Scott WILSON's grave?
I can't find a map of the churchyard so I think it would be worth contacting the church again to see if they can explain this.
Regards,
Daisy