Thanks Roger - sorry don't know if you are referring to my post! The only problem there is that both names she gave me may well not exist, for example when I was younger she said my fathers name was Joe Bloggs - (to avoid naming people) and after this woman got in contact she came out with, say Jerry Bloggs for this Irish chap, and when I said that she had told me his name was Joe, she went into a flap saying sehe is too old and her brain cannot work back that far!!! The second man she has given two names for too.... I would definitely remember no matter how old I am, any man who made me pregnant, or if two possibilites, both their names, it isn't something a woman would easily forget. I do think she knows, and I may find out on her death - maybe she has instructed a family member to tell me then!!! Until then I will just get names....

Oh well - if I can help Jimmy trace his relatives, it doesn't matter about mine, Mum can stew!!!
Funny enough - one of her hobbies is tracing her family history.........