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Title: Of interest
Post by: Gadget on Saturday 09 September 23 18:06 BST (UK)
Just read this article in The Guardian.

https://tinyurl.com/y9vmt6sd

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The Gift, Jenny Kleeman’s six-part series on the unexpected truths revealed by at-home DNA testing, launches on BBC Sounds and BBC Radio 4 on Monday 11 September.
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: Biggles50 on Sunday 10 September 23 11:36 BST (UK)
Wow.

I literary have tears in my eyes after reading that story.

Many thank Garget for posting it.

DNA is a double edged sword, one needs to be very aware of what it might reveal.
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: sandiep on Sunday 10 September 23 20:00 BST (UK)
Wow.

I literary have tears in my eyes after reading that story.

Many thank Garget for posting it.

DNA is a double edged sword, one needs to be very aware of what it might reveal.

My thoughts exactly Biggles
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: aspin on Sunday 10 September 23 23:16 BST (UK)
Very interesting to read
Elizabeth
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: Gadget on Monday 11 September 23 13:13 BST (UK)
A reminder of the programme on unexpected DNA results starts today:

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The Gift, Jenny Kleeman’s six-part series on the unexpected truths revealed by at-home DNA testing, launches on BBC Sounds and BBC Radio 4 on Monday 11 September.
Title: Re: Of interest - The Gift - Radio 4/Sounds
Post by: Gadget on Monday 11 September 23 13:24 BST (UK)
Just found it was on live at 11am.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001qdm5

It will be available for 'over a year'
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: coombs on Monday 11 September 23 13:56 BST (UK)
The Gift sounds interesting.

My uncle born Sep 1944 is a possible NPE. Grandads army records hint at this.

Not sure of the true percentage of overall NPE's (children born in marriage but the father was another man) or informal adoptions that took place. I say about 2 to 3%.

An NPE can also mean an illegitimate birth that is recorded as such, rather than a child born in marriage but the blood father was not the mothers husband.

Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: TonyV on Monday 11 September 23 23:09 BST (UK)
Thanks for the heads-up Gadget. I've only just seen it, so missed the initial broadcast, but will catch up. I am the product of an NPE and still searching. I imagine that the programme will cover this increasingly common, entirely unexpected (in my case) and discombobulating potential.

Tony 
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: TonyV on Tuesday 12 September 23 21:20 BST (UK)
I listened to the broadcast yesterday evening. It was well worth it and I look forward to later episodes when they are released.

Biggles commented above that you need to be wary of what you might find when testing. But it isn't in the testing companies' interests to advise customers to maybe think again before going ahead with a test. The people on last night's broadcast took their tests innocently and in at least one case, quite casually, thinking that it might reveal another branch of their known family, or to see what part of the world they might be associated with, or for similar reasons. But what they got was life-changing for them personally and it also revealed fraudulent activities in some so-called birth clinics.

It was striking that an elderly man had been given the test as a Christmas present and took it quite casually, only to find out that he had a child he knew nothing about. He and his wife's reaction was along the lines of "Oh well, never mind". whereas the child, now grown up, was devastated.

I can attest to the emotional upheaval of such a discovery. It was unlike anything I had experienced before in my longish life. I have devoted a lot of time since, trying to find out more, so far without success, and not all of my family is supportive. Many people have commented in forums like this along the lines of "Your family is the one that you were brought up in. You may be genetically linked elsewhere, but that's not your real family".  I agree with that, but it doesn't stop the powerful need to find out where your genes came from.

I suspect that there will be much more of this kind of emotional stuff as the series progresses.

Tony     

 
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: Biggles50 on Wednesday 13 September 23 05:56 BST (UK)
It is not always what DNA gives by way of match’s that testers should be aware of.

It can happen that there are no DNA match’s routing down branch’s of your tree.

I have zero DNA match’s linked to either of my Paternal GGF’s and beyond them, hence I have two questionable relationships despite the documented pathways.

Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: sandiep on Wednesday 13 September 23 15:04 BST (UK)
there was a programme on BBC3 on Tuesday night  called a stranger in my family about a young man who when he did DNA came back his father wasnt his biological parent.....and short version
Mother had a foreign holiday only new chaps 1st name Ancestry genealogist worked on case found a cousin and they found the father who hadnt known his own father but they found him also!
bit shortened but its on iplayer interesting watch.......which I could understand the DNA the way they do  double dutch to me ;D ;D 
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: Gadget on Wednesday 13 September 23 15:43 BST (UK)
I missed that Sandi. Thanks for posting.

Here's the link

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m001qg3q/stranger-in-my-family

Gadget
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: aspin on Friday 31 January 25 11:35 GMT (UK)
Are we still talking about Ancestry on here
Last night I went into Ancestry DNA for a look
and found all my DNA matches have gone
Has this happened to anyone else
I no longer pay Ancestry could they have blocked me off
Elizabeth
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: LizzieL on Friday 31 January 25 11:49 GMT (UK)
Are we still talking about Ancestry on here
Last night I went into Ancestry DNA for a look
and found all my DNA matches have gone
Has this happened to anyone else
I no longer pay Ancestry could they have blocked me off
Elizabeth

I let my sub lapse for a few weeks last year as the renewal came up just before I was due to be away on holiday. My DNA  matches were all there but I could only see a limited number of shared matches.  Everything back when I renewed sub
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: aspin on Friday 31 January 25 22:27 GMT (UK)
Thank you  Lizzie for your reply
Looks like I'm not going to bother with Ancestry anymore
Elizabeth
Title: Re: Of interest
Post by: brigidmac on Wednesday 12 March 25 17:49 GMT (UK)
I'm stuck in a traffic jam with sister driving
We are listening to episode 4
About TABOO

I have helped people with endogamy paternal grandmas brother marrying maternal granddad's sister so only 6 great grandparents not 8
No incest involved

Lots of cousin marriages in various trees that I marriage

& Have heard cases where people have NO matches on paternal side