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Title: Birthdays and anniversaries of our ancestors.
Post by: coombs on Monday 26 June 23 14:35 BST (UK)
I doubt they were as high key as today, but no doubt our ancestors will have marked landmark anniversaries or birthdays (providing they knew their exact age). For example I found out that 1929 would have been quite full of such events for my ancestors. Two great grandparents would have had their 10th wedding anniversary in Oct 1929, and the aforementioned great grandmother had her 40th birthday in Sep 1929. Also another set of ancestors would have had their 60th wedding anniversary in Sep 1929, and a great grandfather would have had his 50th birthday in Nov 1929.

Another set of great grandparents would have had their 10th wedding anniversary in June 1930. And one great grandfather and his 2nd wife had their 25th wedding anniversary in October 1956, their last as he became a widower in April 1957.

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Post by: Erato on Monday 26 June 23 15:11 BST (UK)
I have several newspaper articles that record birthdays or wedding anniversaries.  Here's one:
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Post by: coombs on Monday 26 June 23 21:54 BST (UK)
I have several newspaper articles that record birthdays or wedding anniversaries.  Here's one:

Interesting. At first i thought that read 21st but it was his 91st in 1911 so he was born 1820.

In regards to my ancestors who had their 60th wedding anniversary in Sep 1929, well the husband was gone by the following September so it was a great final anniversary together.
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Post by: DianaCanada on Monday 26 June 23 22:05 BST (UK)
Newspapers are a great source of family celebrations, especially towards the end of the 19th century and several decades into the 20th.
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Post by: Erato on Monday 26 June 23 22:28 BST (UK)
GGG-uncle Joshua died in 1914 just a few months shy of his 95th birthday.  As far as I know, he never did see much of the world beyond Boston.  He was a very successful and prosperous carriage maker.  Here he is at age 93:
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Post by: DianaCanada on Tuesday 27 June 23 01:29 BST (UK)
Great photo!
Title: Re: Birthdays and anniversaries of our ancestors.
Post by: coombs on Tuesday 27 June 23 15:13 BST (UK)
Excellent photo as said.
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Post by: Erato on Tuesday 27 June 23 16:35 BST (UK)
Here's an earlier birthday celebration.  The poem was written and printed in 1880 by the son of Oliver Dickson on the occasion of his 75th birthday.  Oliver was the husband of Sarah Mitchell, a sister of Joshua Mitchell; he was a wheelwright in Boston.  [Did he make wheels for his brother-in-law's carriages?  I don't know.]  He retired to a farm in nearby Concord where he was a prominent church deacon and where he died in 1882.

The poem is actually three pages long but this is more than enough to give the idea.
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Post by: bridgwatergirl on Wednesday 28 June 23 09:21 BST (UK)
I found an account of one set of my great-great-great-grandparents celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary in 1909, although with a little sting in the tale in this case, since the reason I was looking at that edition was because it was around the time that g-g-g-grandfather died.

Bridgwater Mercury 17th February 1909:
DIAMOND WEDDING. – On Wednesday last an interesting event was celebrated by Mr. and Mrs. T. Gadd of Hammett-street – that day being the anniversary of their 60th year of married life, their respective ages being 82 and 81.  They have seven children, 41 grand-children, and 26 great-grand-children.  On behalf of a few friends, the Rev. F. W. Walker made the old couple a small present, which was greatly appreciated by them.  Unfortunately the health of Mr Gadd has given his relatives and friends cause for great anxiety, and we regret to say he passed away on Thursday, much sympathy being felt for Mrs. Gadd in her bereavement.
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Post by: coombs on Wednesday 28 June 23 12:33 BST (UK)
Wow, seems it was quite a common event to celebrate milestone anniversaries. So Mr Gadd died the day after he had his 60th wedding anniversary?
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Post by: bridgwatergirl on Wednesday 28 June 23 13:34 BST (UK)
Wow, seems it was quite a common event to celebrate milestone anniversaries. So Mr Gadd died the day after he had his 60th wedding anniversary?

It does seem to be!  Mr Gadd (Thomas) died on the 12 (Friday) according to his death cert, but, yes, pretty immediately after - not what I was expecting when I looked, so doing the maths about anniversaries seems like a worthwhile tip.
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Post by: Top-of-the-hill on Wednesday 28 June 23 15:39 BST (UK)
  My gr gr grandmother was given a large print bible by the lady of the manor for her 72nd birthday! She lived to just over 90. I rather doubt that any of my local ancestors celebrated birthdays much, let alone anniversaries, and if they did it didn't make the newspapers!
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Post by: andrewalston on Friday 30 June 23 10:20 BST (UK)
When my parents celebrated their 25th, the local paper sent a chap round, with a photographer in tow.
When they reached their 50th, they took details down the phone.   
When they reached their 60th, I could not find a phone number for them. The email I sent was apparently ignored. It seems only paid ads go in these days.

The 60th anniversary celebratory Message From The Queen did arrive. A postie in special dress uniform delivered it.   ;D
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Post by: rayard on Friday 30 June 23 15:47 BST (UK)
I remember when Nan & Grandad celebrated their Golden Wedding anniversary they had golden colured doyleys and serviettes. I sat under the table with my brother out of the way! I made a nice iced cake for Mom & Dad's Silver Wedding. no newspaper announcements though.
rayard.
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Post by: Erato on Friday 30 June 23 18:12 BST (UK)
I have a nice 1957 photo of my grandparents at a different kind of anniversary celebration - the 50th anniversary of their arrival in Angola as missionaries.  [My grandfather had actually gone there in 1903 followed by my grandmother in 1907].  A small delegation came to deliver a book signed by hundreds of people.  The main thing I recall about this event is that the signatures were in white ink on black paper.