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Title: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 19 August 22 16:05 BST (UK)
I am returning to my research after a very long break and I feel like a beginner!

I would like to find the 2nd marriage of my Gt Grandfather, Benjamin Freeman, but I have very little information to go on.

He was born in Meesden, Hertfordshire in c1869

He is on the 1921 census as being married to 'Amy' (who was born in Langley, Essex in 1885) and  living in Battersea SW11.

He was on the 1911 census with my Gt Grandmother and their children, living in Edmonton, (London/Middlesex).

I know nothing of him between 1911 and 1921 other than he left the family home after Gt Grandmother died in 1912 and the family did not see him again.

Is there anybody that can give me some advice?

Many thanks
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: Milliepede on Friday 19 August 22 16:21 BST (UK)
You can check on the Free BMD index for a marriage to start with as you have his name and the first name of his wife.

Keep in mind though they may not have actually ever married just lived together.

Do you know when he passed away?  If after 1939 you can look for him on the 1939 register.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: rosie99 on Friday 19 August 22 16:30 BST (UK)
Do you have his exact date of birth in case he is traceable in 1939 register
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: rosie99 on Friday 19 August 22 16:39 BST (UK)
Are they in Bognor in 1939  :-\. His year of birth 1870
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: rosie99 on Friday 19 August 22 16:43 BST (UK)
Maybe  :-\
Death Mar qtr 1945 
Freeman    Benjamin    age 74   
Horsham reg dist    2b   547



Wrong one - probate mentions Eliza Blanche Freeman - they are together in 1939 at Partridge Green
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: ansteynomad on Friday 19 August 22 17:02 BST (UK)
For the sake of completeness, birth registered in Royston District June Quarter 1869 mother's maiden name Robinson.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 19 August 22 17:13 BST (UK)
Thank you for all your replies.

I have checked on Free BMD and there are no matches. It is quite possible that they were not married - I have never been able to find evidence of his marriage to Gt Grandma either.

I do not have his exact dob, but do have his baptism date (7th March 1869) which I got from the Meesden Parish Registers & yes, his mothers maiden name was Jane Robinson. Would it help if I obtained a copy of his birth certificate?

I do not have any information on his death.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: ColC on Friday 19 August 22 17:24 BST (UK)



FREEMAN, BENJAMIN       Mother ROBINSON 
GRO Reference: 1869  J Quarter in ROYSTON  Volume 03A  Page 250

Spouse   Ann Brett
Father   James Freeman
Mother   Jane Robinson
Birth   7 Mar 1869 Meesden

1901 & 1911
Benjamin Freeman 41 Ann Freeman 45
Frederick 21 Beatrice 19 Grace 14

FREEMAN, ANN       46 
GRO Reference: 1912  M Quarter in EDMONTON  Volume 03A  Page 627

When Grace Edith Freeman married 31 May 1925 father Benjamin a Scaffolder.

No second marriage that I can see but 3 possible deaths in the greater London area.

Deaths Dec 1944   
Freeman    Benjamin    75    Chelsea    1a   284
 Deaths Mar 1945
Freeman    Benjamin    74    Horsham    2b   547
 Deaths Jun 1952   
FREEMAN    Benjamin    82    Lewisham    5d   92

Colin
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: ColC on Friday 19 August 22 17:34 BST (UK)
I think this may be them in 1939, birth date wrong but the age difference similar to 1921.
His occupation was on Fredericks baptism so that may be correct.

Benjamin Freeman 10 May 1870 - Baptism date maybe?
   Amy Freeman 10 Aug 1887
Marital Status:   Married
Address:   Sunny Bank, Shripney
Residence Place:   Chichester, Sussex, England
Occupation:   Builders Labourer - Retired

Colin
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Friday 19 August 22 17:44 BST (UK)
Electoral registers show:
Benjamin and Amy Freeman living at 130 Wickersley Road, Battersea, Wandsworth
From 1918 to 1938.
The registers not showing before 1918.

Others at the house are mainly Edith Newell who is living there with husband and family at 1901 447/84/29

Edith has several children including Emily but not Amy.

Added
Emily is living with her mother and the Freemand on one register so Amy is not her.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Friday 19 August 22 17:56 BST (UK)
 They are not there in 1939.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 19 August 22 19:00 BST (UK)
Thank you again to everyone who has provided information.

 Despite drawing a blank on a marriage to Amy, I have learnt more about Benjamin’s later years in the last few hours than I ever dreamt possible as it looks like they were the Benjamin and Amy in Shripney in 1939 since they were no longer at the address in Wickersley Road after 1938.

ColC – do you still think that Benjamin’s death could be one of the three you listed in view of this?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: ColC on Friday 19 August 22 19:04 BST (UK)
Hard to say but the difficulty is no deaths in Sussex, so did they move to get away from the south coast during the war?

Colin
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Friday 19 August 22 19:20 BST (UK)
Rosie eliminated the Horsham death in Reply #4, (just in case you were getting desperate and going to start throwing money at death certificates).
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 19 August 22 19:32 BST (UK)
Thanks for pointing that out bbart! So that reduces it to two possibilities - years ago I looked, unsuccessfully, for his death in North London (not knowing that he had left the area) so I can discard the possibility that he returned to North London.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: Milliepede on Friday 19 August 22 22:06 BST (UK)
Quote
being married to 'Amy' (who was born in Langley, Essex in 1885)

Sorry I might have missed something but where did the birth place for Amy come from please?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Friday 19 August 22 22:11 BST (UK)
Quote
being married to 'Amy' (who was born in Langley, Essex in 1885)

Sorry I might have missed something but where did the birth place for Amy come from please?

1921 census, I think.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Friday 19 August 22 23:02 BST (UK)

Address:   Sunny Bank, Shripney
Residence Place:   Chichester, Sussex, England
Occupation:   Builders Labourer - Retired

Before I go down a rabbit hole with some newspaper items, Shripney is the name of the road, but is Sunny Bank a name of a single house? As in, just Mrs. Giles house?

Edited to add snip from want ads (in the remote possibility it is the Freemans' wanting the caravan)


Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Friday 19 August 22 23:39 BST (UK)
Electoral registers show:
Benjamin and Amy Freeman living at 130 Wickersley Road, Battersea, Wandsworth
From 1918 to 1938.

Amy Freeman at 130 Wickersley Road, Battersea, from 1945 all the way up to 1965 (no more available!) No Benjamin.

Possible death
Sep 1973 Wandsworth 5e 1011
Freeman, Amy
d-o-b 10 August 1889
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Friday 19 August 22 23:43 BST (UK)
Possible death
Sep 1973 Wandsworth 5e 1011

Hoping it is her, the death cert should (theoretically!) give Amy's maiden name and place of birth.

Though I wouldn't bet on it (It depends on the knowledge of the informant)
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Friday 19 August 22 23:49 BST (UK)

Amy Freeman at 130 Wickersley Road, Battersea, from 1945 all the way up to 1965 (no more available!) No Benjamin.

So this death, in ColC's list of possibilities times out well:

Deaths Dec 1944   
Freeman    Benjamin    75    Chelsea    1a   284
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Friday 19 August 22 23:57 BST (UK)
Wandsworth Burial Search
https://enable.imagestor.co.uk/search/publicsearch2.aspx

Benjamin Freeman, burial 8 Nov 1944

Amy Freeman, burial 6 Sep 1973

Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Saturday 20 August 22 00:00 BST (UK)
Wandsworth Burial Search
https://enable.imagestor.co.uk/search/publicsearch2.aspx

Benjamin Freeman, burial 8 Nov 1944

Amy Freeman, burial 6 Sep 1973

Well done!
*gives a round of applause*
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 00:03 BST (UK)
Well, thanks, though I think all the hard work was done already!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Saturday 20 August 22 06:26 BST (UK)
Great finds  :)
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Saturday 20 August 22 06:41 BST (UK)
Still no marriages though.  >:(

I was wondering if he had a prior marriage that was preventing him from marrying (in the few years he would have time to do so), so have been slowly sifting through the FreeBMD entries, and have eliminated the more hopeful ones, with the exception of a 1900 marriage to Sarah Jones in St. Giles.  I would doubt this one as being him as it is far too close to the birth of his first child, but who knows!?
Perhaps a religious conflict?  Or he was just trying to live up to his surname, and remain a Free Man.  ::)
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Saturday 20 August 22 07:19 BST (UK)
 :) Benjamin was already married and left his family - see opening post.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Saturday 20 August 22 07:34 BST (UK)
:) Benjamin was already married and left his family - see opening post.

Thank goodness you posted that!!!  I had meant to set the end date for 1890...not 1900.  ::)

Now I can quit searching for my nemesis, Sarah Jones!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Saturday 20 August 22 10:22 BST (UK)
Thank you for all the information that has come in overnight.

I confirm that I got Amy’s birth place as being Langley from the 1921 census record.

My guess is the  reason there are no more entries for 130 Wickersley Road after 1965 is because the houses in that part of the street were demolished. Wickersley Road was a lot longer than it is now.

I think my next step is to order the death certificates for Benjamin Freeman in 1944 and Amy Freeman in 1973 and I will report back when I have got them.

I am particularly interested in who Amy was because the story that my Nan (Benjamin’s daughter Grace) told me as a child was that after Gt Grandma (Ann Brett) died in 1912 Benjamin went off with another woman  (I think she said it was a cousin – I can’t be sure, it was a long time ago – but definitely a relation) and they never saw him again. So there is a bit of a mystery there and it would be great to be able to solve it after all this time!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Saturday 20 August 22 11:08 BST (UK)
Can I just throw this lady into the pot for other's to dismiss if possible.
Known facts first.

Name "Amy"
1921 born c 1885 Langley, believe this is Abbots Langley, Hertfordshire (Watford reg district)
1939 dob 10.8.1887
Death 10.8.1973

CORKE, AMY       mmn ORMROD 
GRO Reference: 1887  D Quarter in WATFORD  Volume 03A  Page 548

Found 1891 aged 3
Found 1901 aged 13
Found 1911 aged 21

Married Arthur Narroway mq 1913 Watford

Cannot find anything on either  Arthur or Amy after 1913 marriage. No Narroway/Corke births that I can find.

John
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 11:18 BST (UK)
Arthur Narroway died 11 April 1917, in France.
Private, 6th Battalion, Bedfordshire Regiment.
Reg. No. 31516

Soldiers' Effects has Amy, widow, as sole legatee.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Saturday 20 August 22 11:59 BST (UK)
Arthur Narroway can be found as the "Adopted son" of  James & Mary E Marroway in 1911 Bushey, Herts, born c1887 Shepherd's Bush, London.

& as son in 1901 census still with James & Mary and born c1887 Shepherd's Bush

UK, Soldiers Died in the Great War, 1914-1919
Casualties
   
Arthur Narroway
Birth   
Bushey, Herts

John
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 12:03 BST (UK)
Arthur Narroway is in the World War I Pension Ledgers and Index Cards on ancestry.
His widow Amy does not appear to be in their index, which seems unusual to me.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Saturday 20 August 22 12:21 BST (UK)
I know we have moved away from Amy but this is for info only.

Arthur Narroway was an "Adopted son" of James & Mary E.

Believe born as Hardby Yetta  ( could be Harry?)

1891 census
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:W8FL-BT2

John
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Saturday 20 August 22 18:00 BST (UK)
I have to burst your bubble...

Kathleen Amy Narroway, widow, daughter of Herbert James Corke, plasterer, marries Gardner Pennington in St. Giles, 22 Feb 1919.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 18:50 BST (UK)
Perhaps the lady wasn't originally called Amy.
Not many registered with that name, as first or second, in Saffron Walden RD, 1885-90 (presuming that her Langley, Essex, place of birth is right in 1921). And only one or two of those were registered in the Sep quarter.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 19:02 BST (UK)
After we see him in the 1911 census, Benjamin Freeman stays on the electoral register at 5 Beamish Road, Edmonton, for 1912 and 1913.
But on the 1914 register he has moved, and is now at 308 Hertford Road, successive from 5 Beamish.
He is in the local directory for 1913-14 at that address as well.
But, in the following year, Benjamin is there no more.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Saturday 20 August 22 19:06 BST (UK)
bbart, bubbles have to be burst to get to the true evidence. Good find.

John
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Saturday 20 August 22 19:43 BST (UK)
I can confirm  that it definitely says Langley, Essex as the birth place of Amy on the  1921 census record. Langley is very close to Meesden. A couple of Benjamin’s older brothers married girls from Langley.

It is very strange  jonw65 that you should remark  that  Amy might not have been her true name because I have been thinking about that all day….

Benjamin had a niece called Ada Freeman who was the daughter of his older brother David (born 1851 in Meesde) and his wife Eliza Law (born  1853 in Langley).

On the 1901 census Ada is a Cook and Domestic Servant in Cambridge  and in 1904 she gave birth to an illegitimate son who she called Baron Moore in St Albans Workhouse.

Baron Moore’s daughter Audrey told me that he was brought up by his Grandparents  David & Eliza and they had told him that Ada had died in childbirth. However, it was Ada was registered Baron Moore’s birth (I have seen the Workhouse registry for myself in Hertford Archives) and I could not find a death for her either.

I could not find Ada on either the 1911 or the 1921 census records.

I know there would never be a way to prove it but do you think Ada could be Amy?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Saturday 20 August 22 19:55 BST (UK)
I think we need to also keep in mind that whoever it was that Benjamin ran off with, is not necessarily Amy.  Things may have gone sour with the "mystery cousin", and Amy came along afterwards.


Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Saturday 20 August 22 20:23 BST (UK)
You may get lucky with Amy's death certificate. I'm sure that we all are keeping our fingers crossed on that.
If not, you have that 10 August birth date. It's a pity her year of birth moves around a bit.
There have been similar cases on here where a mystery woman has been identified, I think Amy will be too, eventually.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Saturday 20 August 22 20:28 BST (UK)
Hopefully so and I appreciate all the help that has been given.

I did forget to mention that Ada was born about 1884 so would have been of a similar age to Amy.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Sunday 21 August 22 02:23 BST (UK)
Lyndsey, was the years/months (of age) filled out for Amy on the 1921? (You may have said it already, apologies if you have).
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Sunday 21 August 22 08:50 BST (UK)

hi bbart

Yes, it says 35 years and 10 months.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Sunday 21 August 22 16:47 BST (UK)
Without reading through all the posts again, whoever registered Amy's death did at least know her day and month of birth so may have known her maiden name or possibly a previous marriage name if there was one.

John
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Sunday 21 August 22 17:04 BST (UK)
That would be really good news. The certificates have been ordered and are due to be despatched on 26th.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: softly softly on Sunday 21 August 22 17:08 BST (UK)
Fingers crossed.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Thursday 01 September 22 13:45 BST (UK)
Hi all
I have now received the death certificates I ordered and they are for the correct Benjamin and Amy Freeman so thank you all for your help in pointing me in the right direction.

The information on them is as follows:

Benjamin Freeman
When & where died: 3rd November 1944, St Stephen’s Hospital
Age: 75 years
Address: 130 Wickersley Road, Battersea
Occupation: Scaffolder (Retired)
Cause of death: 1a, Pyelitis & Cystitis
                                b, Prostatic Enlargement (Simple)
Details of informant: A Freeman, Widow of diseased, Present at death, 130 Wickersley Road, SW11


Amy Freeman
Date & place of death: 13th August 1973, Bolingbroke Hospital, Battersea
Place & date of birth: 10th August 1889, Hertfordshire
Maiden name of woman who has married – Blank
Occupation & usual address: Widow of Benjamin Freeman (Scaffolder), 130 Wickersley  Road, SW11
Name of informant: Winifred May Fussey
Qualification: Causing the body to be buried
Usual address: 43 Freedom Street, SW11
Cause of death: 1a, Myocardial Infart
                          b, Bronchopneumonia


I would very much appreciate it if you could offer advice on how I can find out more about Amy and also how to find out where they may be buried?

Many thanks
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Thursday 01 September 22 20:52 BST (UK)
At this point, it might be worth it to order a PDF of Ada's birth registration from the GRO to see if her birthday was Aug 10th.

Amy was getting younger over the years, so the year can't be counted on. I'm guessing that her death info was taken from the hospital admissions, so it could have been Amy now saying she was born in Herts.
Ada vanishes, Amy appears, and then there's that family story....

 FREEMAN, ADA        LAW     
GRO Reference: 1884  S Quarter in ROYSTON  Volume 03A  Page 434
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Thursday 01 September 22 21:42 BST (UK)
Thanks bbart.

A very logical suggestion, and have done so. I will be sure to let you know.

I have been able to locate both Benjamin & Amy's resting place (together) in Morden Cemetery this afternoon and hope to go and visit it.

Without all the help I have received from this Forum it would not have been possible so thank you again.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Tuesday 13 September 22 12:54 BST (UK)
I now know that Ada could not have been Amy.

Ada's birth details are that she was born on 16th July 1884 in Meesden (Hertfordshire) and her birth registered on 27th August 1884.

What (if anything) can be done to try and find out who Amy was? I appreciate there is very little information to go on.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Tuesday 13 September 22 13:56 BST (UK)
Do we think Amy was from Herts or from Essex? :-\
Sadly the informant seems to be unrelated.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Tuesday 13 September 22 15:12 BST (UK)
Having studied the writing on Amy's death certificate it looks like the informant was the person who filled in the death certificate and therefore wasn't personally connected to her.

I would imagine that Amy would have been more likely to have come from Essex (Langley) as stated by Benjamin on the 1921 census as he would have had more personal knowledge of her origins?

Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Wednesday 14 September 22 04:34 BST (UK)
Well, I guess hoping it was Ada was too much to hope for...

It is just a guessing game over the info....for example, was there no maiden name because she was a Freeman, or was she unable to supply an answer.

Perhaps the next step should be trying to get hold of the burial record for Amy.  Someone had to take care of her burial/finances/house.  It would at least give another surname (hopefully her family) to work with.

When I looked up Morden Cemetery, this is what is listed as their website:
https://www.nes-crematorium.org.uk/  There is a contact phone number; I didn't see an email address, but really didn't look around the site.

Do you know if 130 Wickersley Road is a private residence?  They lived there a long time, so possibly owned it.... is there public access to house history that the name of whoever sold it on her behalf could be learned?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Wednesday 14 September 22 10:19 BST (UK)
Yes bbart, I was disappointed. It would have tied things up nicely and it would have been lovely to be able to tell Ada's granddaughter that I had found her grandma.

Re. your suggestions, I will see what I can find out.

Many thanks.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Wednesday 14 September 22 15:19 BST (UK)
I am afraid I have hit a brick wall.

Morden Cemetery say they only have the death information for Benjamin and Amy on their burial records.

130 Wickersley Road no longer exists. The road is much shorter now as much of it was demolished as part of the Slum Clearance. It has been replaced by what looks like council housing.

The only scrap of information I managed to find on Google was an excerpt from a book written by someone whose childhood home was in Wickersley Road in the 1950's in which he mentions they were tenants of Wandsworth Council.

I am open to all other suggestions if anyone has any!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Wednesday 14 September 22 16:34 BST (UK)
Benjamin had a niece called Ada Freeman who was the daughter of his older brother David (born 1851 in Meesden) and his wife Eliza Law (born  1853 in Langley).

It's all very odd.
Meesden and Langley are so near to each other.
And Benjamin had been down in Edmonton for such a long time.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Wednesday 14 September 22 16:50 BST (UK)
Possible in free index to 1911 census? :-\
Wembley, Middlesex
Annie Freeman Servant Single 26, born Meesden Green
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XW4Z-FPT

Original does not give a county of birth.
Was there an Annie from Meesden? Not finding one!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Wednesday 14 September 22 17:12 BST (UK)
1891 in Meesden
Schedule 10, The Green - Farm...Edward Walton, Farmer
Schedule 11,  Do. Cottage...David Freeman, Ag Lab

Is that Meesden Green? Ada born there?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Wednesday 14 September 22 18:18 BST (UK)
Original does not give a county of birth.

The clerk with his red ink pen was in no doubt!
1911 census birthplace codes
310 Hertfordshire
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Wednesday 14 September 22 18:29 BST (UK)
1891 in Meesden
Schedule 10, The Green - Farm...Edward Walton, Farmer
Schedule 11,  Do. Cottage...David Freeman, Ag Lab

Is that Meesden Green? Ada born there?

In 1901, providing David hasn't moved, his "address" was Meesden Green. 

In 1901 Ada was in Grantchester, Cambridgeshire as a servant to Richard Assheton.  Her age is given as 17, so approx. 1884.

Piece:    1527
Folio:    41
Page number:    29
Household schedule number:    198


Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Wednesday 14 September 22 18:37 BST (UK)
I wonder if we should be looking into the families of the two gals from Langley, Essex that married into the Freeman family.  Possibly they had much younger siblings?
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: jonwarrn on Wednesday 14 September 22 18:40 BST (UK)
If Ada was born 16th July 1884, then she should have been age 6 in the 1891 census, and 16 in 1901.
Instead of 7 and 17.
So you could say that the age for "Annie" in 1911 is more accurate!
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Wednesday 14 September 22 19:02 BST (UK)
it would have been lovely to be able to tell Ada's granddaughter that I had found her grandma.

Ada has a granddaughter.... if you can't post the name of Ada's child here, can you private message it to jonw65 and myself?  It would give us another avenue to pursue.

Edit :  never mind!  Just reread reply #38.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Thursday 15 September 22 21:09 BST (UK)
Thank you all for your replies.  I shall attempt to reply to all the points raised.

Yes, Benjamin was in Edmonton a long time, but he was not the only Freeman to move there from Meesden. His brother’s William, Robert, Frederick  as well as his only sister, Sarah, also moved to Edmonton. So when he left to go south of the river he was leaving a lot of family behind.

Of the brothers who remained in Meesden -  David married Eliza Law (b.1853 Langley) and Joseph  married Mary Selina Abrams  (I think that should be Abrahams) (b. c1861 Langley) and I have looked at the siblings of both wives as suggested –
Eliza was the daughter of Aaron & Jane Law and the only female siblings I could find for her were:
Ellen (b. 1856)
Harriet (b. c1861 Langley)
Rebecca (b. c1866 Langley).
Mary Selina was the daughter William & Tryphena Abrams (Abrahams) and the only female siblings I could find for her were:
Celia (b. c1863 Langley)
Florence (b. c1865 Langley)
Agnes H (b. c1878 Clavering)
I know there is a big gap between Florence & Agnes H but I could not find the family on the 1891 census.

About 15 years ago I went to both Meesden Parish Church and Hertford Archives to look at their Meesden records and have never seen a birth record for an Annie Freeman in either so it does look as if “Annie” is the missing Ada! However, I have not been able to find her under that name in the 1921 census. Perhaps you could give me some tips on how I can widen my search?

Once again thank you all.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Thursday 15 September 22 22:17 BST (UK)
I know there is a big gap between Florence & Agnes H but I could not find the family on the 1891 census.

It looks like they are still in Clavering, but Tryphena is being called "Hannah"
They have the right sons with them, but now with 3 grandchildren of which I cannot make out their surname. Ancestry has transcribed the grandchildren as surname Tofte, which may or may not be correct.
The youngest grandchild is an Annie, just to tantalize us!

District 3, Clavering, Essex
If you are using ancestry.co.uk this should take you there:
https://www.ancestry.co.uk/discoveryui-content/view/19139178:6598
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: Gibel on Thursday 15 September 22 23:38 BST (UK)
John, Kate and Annie Tofts are all shown in the GRO Index with mother’s maiden name Abraham.

A Florence Abram married a Walter Tofts in December Q 1883 in Royston Registration District.

I think Walter died in 1888 and in 1892 Florence married John Tofts in the Saffron Walden Registration district. The couple had  Violet May 1896 (mother’s maiden name Abraham) and Olive Rosa in 1899 registered Bishop Stortford Maiden name Abrams

According to the 1901 census Florence nee Abram or Abraham was born in Langley about 1865
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: bbart on Friday 16 September 22 00:45 BST (UK)
Thanks Gibel.
It appears Walter Tofts died in 1890, and in 1892 Florence remarried to a John Tofts.

And sadly in regards to daughter Kate,  there is this:

Grantham Journal 12 March 1904

Sad Fatality
A verdict of  "Accidental death" was returned on Saturday, at an inquest on Kate Elizabeth Tofts, aged eighteen.  the deceased and her fiancee were being driven by her step-father, Mr. John Tofts, of the Catherine Wheel Inn, Albury, to Bishop Stortford station, when the horse shied at a stationary motorcar.  All were thrown out, and rendered unconscious, and Miss Tofts succumbed to concussion of the brain.

Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 16 September 22 16:38 BST (UK)
What a sad story and what a small world. I have just been looking at pictures of the Catherine Wheel and I have been there!
Pre-Covid a small group of us Freeman descendants would meet up to have a wander around Meesden Church graveyard and then get a bite to eat , which got increasingly difficult as so many of the country pubs are closing.

The name Tofts rings a bell. I think there may have been Tofts in Meesden at some point as I think I may have seen some Toft headstones in the graveyard there.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: LyndseyB on Friday 04 November 22 13:47 GMT (UK)
Hi All

In #53 bbart asked me if No.130 Wickersley Road was a private house and I replied that it had been demolished. However, I have now seen Wickersley Road on a map dated 1950 and No.130 is still standing. It was renumbered as No.2 when the area was redeveloped - one of the few houses in that road that escaped demolition.

Therefore, could someone please advise me on how to find out if there is house history for that address and if so, how I may be able to gain access to it (as suggested by bbart) in the hope that  maybe it will lead me to find out more about Benjamin's 'wife' Amy.

Many thanks in advance.

Many thanks
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: nfp20 on Tuesday 08 October 24 07:35 BST (UK)
Shripney is an area not just a road. We used to ride the horses through there
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: nfp20 on Tuesday 08 October 24 07:58 BST (UK)
I’m just looking at this family to resolve some information with my Robinson great grandmother Martha.

I have certificates for her marriage to Henry Phillips on 20 November 1864. The certificate does not mention a father for Martha only a birth in Meesden. Her mother appears to be Jane Robinson who married James Freeman, it is this link that I want to verify. The marriage to James Freeman was 25 April 1846 in Royston. On the 1851 census record there is an entry with the freemans that has Emily & Martha Robinson noted with their father William Robinson and Martha is noted as ‘niece’ so I am trying to find Martha’s mother assuming Jane is Williams sister ?

Any help would be very appreciated. Tasha
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Tuesday 08 October 24 08:40 BST (UK)
In 1851 1707 /40/28

Relationships are to the head of the household so William is described as father in law to James Freeman.
The girls are described as nieces to James.

1841 443 /3/1
No relationships in this census
William, Jane and Emily are together plus Joseph, 15 yrs.

There are other Robinsons on the same page who may be related.
Title: Re: Trying to find a marriage with very little information
Post by: heywood on Tuesday 08 October 24 08:48 BST (UK)
You could purchase Martha’s birth certificate to check for her mother.
You can purchase a digital copy for £3.00

https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/login.asp