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Title: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Wednesday 28 October 20 14:55 GMT (UK)
Can anyone help me trace a mystery Mildred? Reginald Thomas Dale was born on 12 Aug  1907 in Staffordshire. he married Annie Bettany in October 1927 in Stoke on Trent.  She died in 1950.
My cousin says he then married again someone called Mildred ( Millie?) but I can't find any record of the marriage( maybe didn't actually marry).
She had two children by her previous marriage named Wesley and Mildred. My cousin knows she was still alive about 1975 but thinks she may have died shortly afterwards . Reginald died in 1991in Arclid, Cheshire.

If anybody could help me fill in the missing pieces about Mildred I would be very grateful!
regards
Martin Dale

Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: pc99 on Wednesday 28 October 20 15:41 GMT (UK)
If you check on Staffordshire B.M.D. you will see that a Reginald T. DALE married Nora F. THOMASON at Shelton St. Giles in 1955. hth.
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: CaroleW on Wednesday 28 October 20 15:53 GMT (UK)
A Reginald Thomas Dale b 12.12.12 died 1.1.1990 Stoke on Trent Staffs.  No will - administration only

 https://probatesearch.service.gov.uk/#wills

Nora Frances Dale b 1.9.14 died 2003 Stafford

You can find Nora on the 1939 register under Thomason - single
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: rosie99 on Wednesday 28 October 20 16:02 GMT (UK)
If you check on Staffordshire B.M.D. you will see that a Reginald T. DALE married Nora F. THOMASON at Shelton St. Giles in 1955. hth.

Birth Sep qtr 1914 
Thomason    Nora Frances    (Mountford)
Stoke T    6b   442

Norah Frances Dale died 2003 Staffordshire - grant & will according to probate index

Sorry Carole I did not get red message  :)
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: louisa maud on Wednesday 28 October 20 16:14 GMT (UK)
IF I AM CORRECT
Nora F Thomason was born Sept qtr
Stoke on Trent
ref 6b 442
She married in this surname , I can't find a previous marriage so far

Cant find much out about Wesley and Mildred her children so far

Louisa Maud
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Wednesday 28 October 20 17:16 GMT (UK)
sadly, that's not her. That Mildred died in 1968 and my cousin knows his Mildred was still alive ( just) in 1975
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: rosie99 on Wednesday 28 October 20 17:17 GMT (UK)
Does he have an address for reginald after 1950 or have any idea when he moved to Cheshire
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: louisa maud on Wednesday 28 October 20 17:25 GMT (UK)
There were quite a few Thomason siblings, would Mildred or Wesley have been a niece or nephew, have you checked out 1939 census,  Nora would have been about 40 ish I think when she married

There are quite a few family trees online

Louisa Maud

Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: rosie99 on Wednesday 28 October 20 17:40 GMT (UK)
Sorry, another question.  Are you able to give us a rough idea as to when Wesley & Mildred junior were born.  Were they living with Reginald and Mildred after they 'got together'
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Ladyhawk on Wednesday 28 October 20 17:48 GMT (UK)
Can anyone help me trace a mystery Mildred?

Reginald Thomas Dale was born on 12 Aug  1907 in Staffordshire. he married Annie Bettany in October 1927 in Stoke on Trent.  She died in 1950.

Not that this helps with Mildred

Reginald Thomas Dale age 83
Born 12 Aug 1907
Registration Date:   May 1991
Registration District:   South Cheshire
Inferred County:   Cheshire
Volume:   35 Page:   307

Annie Dale Age:   43
Registration Date:   Oct 1950
Registration District:   Stoke on Trent
Volume:   9b Page:   644

Does he have an address for reginald after 1950 or have any idea when he moved to Cheshire

Have you tried looking for Reginald & Mildred on the Electoral Register?
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Wednesday 28 October 20 18:02 GMT (UK)
Well, out of left field I've just found an entry that shows that a Mildred Dodd married a Wesley Dale in 1942 at a Methodist Church in Newcastle under Lyme in 1942 so I'm wondering if my elderly cousin has got it mixed up and they weren't brother and sister but were husband and wife.

Reginald's first wife Annie Bettany died in 1950 so I assume they got together sometime after that
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Wednesday 28 October 20 18:19 GMT (UK)
in terms of an address after 1939 when he lived in Dale St Stoke on Trent the only other info I have is he was cremated on the 3rd June 1999 at a cemetery in Cheshire England.  He died in a village called Arclid in Cheshire but I don't know how long he had lived there
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Wednesday 28 October 20 18:21 GMT (UK)
apologies  I mean 1991 not 1999. Its obviously getting to me!
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: louisa maud on Wednesday 28 October 20 18:26 GMT (UK)
Have you found  Wesley on 1939?, that might be the biggest clue to who was living with him, you say you found him on 1939

LM
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Ladyhawk on Wednesday 28 October 20 18:56 GMT (UK)
Well, out of left field I've just found an entry that shows that a
Mildred Dodd married a Wesley Dale in 1942 at a Methodist Church in Newcastle under Lyme in 1942

I wonder if this is her birth entry?

Mildred Dodd
Registration Sep 1905
Registration District:   Wolstanton Volume:   6b Page:   118

and is she the daughter of Arthur & Sarah Ellen Dodd?

I think she may be the Mildred that died 1968 death already mentioned - her probate doesn’t give any other names

Mildred Dale of 64 Manor Way Crewe died 20 Jul 1968
Probate Chester 18 Sep 1968
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: louisa maud on Wednesday 28 October 20 19:16 GMT (UK)
Am I right in thinking
Wesley Dale was born 1879
parents Thomas and Mary

1881 RG12/2852 F 139 P 36

Thomas Dale 54 born Sandbach
Mary 52 Sandbach
Lilly 16
Maria 14
Wesley 12
Laburn ? 10

All siblings born Crum Cheshire

LM

added

Wesley Dale married 1904 to Evelyn Jackson

There is a family tree online
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Ladyhawk on Wednesday 28 October 20 19:57 GMT (UK)
Am I right in thinking
Wesley Dale was born 1879
parents Thomas and Mary

1881 RG12/2852 F 139 P 36

Thomas Dale 54 born Sandbach
Mary 52 Sandbach
Lilly 16
Maria 14
Wesley 12
Laburn ? 10

All siblings born Crum Cheshire

LM

added

Wesley Dale married 1904 to Evelyn Jackson

There is a family tree online

his death

Wesley Dale Age:   73
Registration Mar1952
Registration District:   Crewe
Volume:   10a Page:   278

Same address 1968 probate for Mildred Dale

Wesley Dale of 64 Manor Way Crewe
Died 20 Jan 1952
Probate 1 Apr 1952 to widow Mildred

Edit to add

Evelyn Mary Dale of 9 Gresty Terrace Crewe (wife of Wesley Dale) Died 23 Sep 1930
Probate 31 Dec 1930 to Anne Jane Oldham  (wife of Frederick Hope Oldham ) & Elizabeth Deakin, widow

Wesley Dale occ asst. schoolmaster
Birth 14 Oct 1878 Crewe Cheshire
First Service Date:   2 Aug 1914
First Ship Served On:   Pembroke I
Last Service Date:   2 Mar 1917
Last Ship Served On:   Pembroke I
Service Number:   M10071







Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Jool on Wednesday 28 October 20 20:27 GMT (UK)
Mildred Dale's obit  Nantwich Chronicle 01 August 1968.  The list of mourners may help.
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Ladyhawk on Wednesday 28 October 20 20:40 GMT (UK)
There is a family tree online

LM - have just seen the public tree on Anc*y and there’s a picture of
Wesley Dodd & Mildred Dale nee Dodd and
her father Arthur & mother Sarah Ellen nee Cadman and her
brother Arthur Dodd - he must be the brother mentioned in the obit (Mr A Dodd) posted by Jool
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Thursday 29 October 20 00:01 GMT (UK)
i have found another probate record for a  Reginald Thomas Dale which makes more sense as it has him living in Stoke on Trent where he had managed the Coop's butchers shop. It has him dying on 1st January 1990 having lived at 108 Washerwall Lane, Werrington , Stoke on Trent.

Sadly it doesn't get me any closer to Mildred who had died in 1975!
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Ladyhawk on Thursday 29 October 20 09:08 GMT (UK)
i have found another probate record for a  Reginald Thomas Dale which makes more sense as it has him living in Stoke on Trent where he had managed the Coop's butchers shop. It has him dying on 1st January 1990 having lived at 108 Washerwall Lane, Werrington , Stoke on Trent.

Sadly it doesn't get me any closer to Mildred who had died in 1975!

A Reginald Thomas Dale b 12.12.12 died 1.1.1990 Stoke on Trent Staffs.  No will - administration only

 https://probatesearch.service.gov.uk/#wills

Nora Frances Dale b 1.9.14 died 2003 Stafford

You can find Nora on the 1939 register under Thomason - single

That Reginald Thomas Dale has the wrong date of birth  ??? and it looks as if he was the one that married Nora

Reginald Thomas Dale was born on 12 Aug  1907 in Staffordshire. he married Annie Bettany in October 1927 in Stoke on Trent.

Is that definitely the correct birth for your Reginald Thomas Dale (12 8 1907)? He died in 1991


Reginald Thomas Dale age 83
Born 12 Aug 1907
Registration Date:   May 1991
Registration District:   South Cheshire
Volume:   35 Page:   307

Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: Jool on Thursday 29 October 20 09:39 GMT (UK)
Just to back up what has already been posted regarding the Reginald Thomas Dale who died on 01.01.1990.

05 January 1990 - Staffordshire Sentinel - Stoke-on-Trent.
"...DALE. At rest on January 1st. at Bucknall Hospital. Reginald Thomas, aged 77 years. the dearly loved husband of Nora Frances Dale, of 108, Washerwall Lane, Werrington. very dear brother of Ivy and Daisy, dear brother-in-law of Jack, Joyce, Brenda..."

Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Thursday 29 October 20 11:09 GMT (UK)
Can I thank everybody for their help? You've helped me unearth a whole thread of possibilities including finding the death details of what I think now is the correct Reginald Thomas Dale

I need to go away now and digest all this !

I'm so grateful.

Many thanks,
Martin
Title: Re: who was Mildred?
Post by: harewood on Friday 30 October 20 12:01 GMT (UK)
Hello again

I have an update.

I've just seen a letter written by Reginald's son Frank in 2003  saying that after his mother Annie died in 1950 he and his father Reg went to live with Mildred( Millie.. Millicent?) in Alsager Cheshire.

Does anyone know if you can access Cheshire voter's roll's on line or any other source of information that would help me?