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Title: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: BrisbaneHay on Thursday 26 March 20 01:40 GMT (UK)
Have copies of letters written late 1800's referring to "my cousin" and "your cousin" to/from child/youth-hood friends. Both educated Peterhead/Longside area.
Would the term cousin mean only your parents siblings children ,or, also include your parents cousins children ie. second cousins.
Thanks
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: GordonFindlay on Thursday 26 March 20 02:36 GMT (UK)
My ag-lab ancestors certainly used a looser meaning than strict "First cousins" - sometimes referring to relatives of a similar generation to the writer living in the same small village or ferm-toun.
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: Ian Nelson on Thursday 26 March 20 02:45 GMT (UK)
the original word 'cousin ' meant ' mother's sister's son'.  But it has also had a general meaning of any blood relative ... see here
https://www.etymonline.com/word/cousin
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: Chilternbirder on Thursday 26 March 20 10:45 GMT (UK)
In large extended families "cousin", "aunt" and "uncle" were often pretty loose terms.

In SWMBOs line with large extended families, and wide age spreads among half siblings, we know form her mother that "cousin" was generally used for relatives of similar age even when they were technically aunts or uncles.

Even now my cousins once removed call me "uncle".
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: Gadget on Thursday 26 March 20 10:52 GMT (UK)

Even now my cousins once removed call me "uncle".

Conversely, I called many cousins once/twice removed, of my parents' age, uncle or aunty.
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: Skoosh on Thursday 26 March 20 13:52 GMT (UK)
Generally speaking a catch-all term for ones relatives in Scotland was your "friens!"

Skoosh.
Title: Re: Meaning of cousin late 1800's in Aberdeen
Post by: BrisbaneHay on Thursday 26 March 20 21:42 GMT (UK)
Thank you for your replies. Answer seems to be a close family member