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		Research in Other Countries => United States of America => Topic started by: noo on Sunday 23 February 20 23:03 GMT (UK) 
		
			
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				I hope someone can help, I am not that proficient at looking at US records as I dont quite understand them or what I should be looking for
 
 I am looking for children of a woman called Selina Maud Pember. I think she married a man called Frederick W Cocroft in 1919. I seem to have found that they married in London as well as New York, is that normal?
 
 I think they had a daughter called (*)  Cocroft, born in New York in 1924.
 
 My next problem is that I dont seem to be able to find marriage records for her. Did she marry a Mr Laurent and go on to have a son called Don?
 
 But also, did Selina and Frederick have any more children?
 
 Do American records show the mothers maiden name?
 
 Thanks for any help
 
 
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				It appears that their daughter was alive as of her son's death in 2017, so she may still be living and I removed her name from your post.  No siblings are mentioned in her son's obituary, which can be found on findagrave.com.
 
 What you will find on American records varies by location and time frame, but a birth, marriage, or death record from the 20th century will likely have a mother's maiden name if it is known.
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				Thanks, I think my problem is that I dont know if that is her son, because I cant seem to put a marriage together which identifes her fathers name which would 'prove' it for me.
			
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				Ive just realised I put their daughter as being born in 1924 by mistake, it is actually 1920
			
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				Uk marriage just Maud:
 
 Sep 1919 Islington 1b 717
 COCROFT Frederick W
 PEMBER Maud
 
 Is this the above mentioned Frederick?:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HY-DYNW-CSW?i=751&cc=1861144&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AF3JJ-4ZK
 
 1940 census:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MB-9CMY?i=8&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQYL-SQJ
 
 Jamjar
 
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				1930 census has her as Maud P:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33SQ-GRZ8-9M5Z?i=8&cc=1810731&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AX45R-HTH
 
 Jamjar
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				Uk marriage just Maud:
 
 Sep 1919 Islington 1b 717
 COCROFT Frederick W
 PEMBER Maud
 
 Is this the above mentioned Frederick?:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HY-DYNW-CSW?i=751&cc=1861144&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AF3JJ-4ZK
 
 1940 census:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MB-9CMY?i=8&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQYL-SQJ
 
 Jamjar
 
 
 Yes that is the family but Im struggling to find a marriage for the daughter D
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				Marriage:
 
 Dec 1897 Pancras 1b 266
 PEMBER Harry
 RUFF Selina
 
 Birth:
 
 PEMBER, SELINA  MAUD mmn RUFF
 GRO Reference: 1899  J Quarter in PANCRAS  Volume 01B  Page 9
 
 UK 1911: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XWLR-K3S
 
 Are you sure the daughter married? There is someone of her name in Chicago 1 Jan 1993.
 
 Jamjar
 
 
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				It appears that their daughter was alive as of her son's death in 2017
 
 Whose son is this and what was his name, please?
 
 Jamjar
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				No I dont know that she did, Im trying to find out, however on ancestry (which is not accurate I know) when you search for her, it comes up with another surname which sometimes can indicate that this is the same woman but under her married name
			
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				It appears that their daughter was alive as of her son's death in 2017
 
 Whose son is this and what was his name, please?
 
 Jamjar
 
 
 Well that was my assumption that this is her son but there is no marriage that I can find betwee her and a Mr Laurent
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				I see, so the son is thought to be Don (Donald ) Laurent.
 
 Jamjar
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				Where did Don die and how old was he at the time of death?
 
 Jamjar
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				There is a 1956 passenger list mentioning an appropriate female LAURENT:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L94P-K979-V?i=1250&cc=1923888&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3A2HZG-9G5
 
 Jamjar
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				The obituary indicates he was born in Brooklyn, NY and moved to Arizona at age 5.  It looks like he still lived there, so that was probably the place of death.  
			
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				Maud and daughter entering US, from UK in 1932. Daughter has a middle name:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:33S7-95DT-QH31?i=664&cc=1923888&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3A24JR-3GN
 
 First arrived Canada 1919: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-99D3-R3V2-H?i=793&cc=2185163&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AQK31-9V4L
 
 Then into US: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XPVZ-W43
 
 Jamjar
 
 
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				DOB(23 Apr 1920) matches what's listed on 1932 Passenger List
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:24JR-3GJ
 
 Public records: https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QJ4P-BCSR
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				It looks like Selina Maud was not with Frederick & daughter for the 1940 census or in 1942 when he registered for the draft and listed his daughter as the person who would always know where he lived.  https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F3JJ-4ZK  Not sure what became of her.
 
 It looks like Frederick died in 1952.  https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/199806839  He appears to be on the New York City death index under Fre Cocroft and the New York State death index as Frederic Cocroft with a place of death of Orangetown, New York.  Maybe his daughter and grandson moved away after his death?
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				Do you have all you need on the UK PEMBER’s?
 
 Jamjar
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				It looks like Selina Maud was not with Frederick & daughter for the 1940 census or in 1942 when he registered for the draft and listed his daughter as the person who would always know where he lived.  https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:F3JJ-4ZK  Not sure what became of her.
 
 It looks like Frederick died in 1952.  https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/199806839  He appears to be on the New York City death index under Fre Cocroft and the New York State death index as Frederic Cocroft with a place of death of Orangetown, New York.  Maybe his daughter and grandson moved away after his death?
 
 
 Yes thats the problem, I can see that Selina wasnt on that census, and then that he died but I cant seem to find any marriage for the daughter so am not sure if Don Laurent is the grandson. Also cant find a death for Selina
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				Do you have all you need on the UK PEMBER’s?
 
 Jamjar
 
 
 I think so. There is one sister of Harry Pember called Alice Beatrice and Im trying to find out if she married. There is no marriage of any Alice Beatrice Pember but there is of a Beatrice A Pember to an Archie Morgan. Not sure if that is her or not.
 
 People seem to keep using their middle names instead of first names.
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				Yes, the swapping about of names is annoying. That 1922 marriage is a fit age and location wise, I suppose.
 
 Jamjar
 
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				There is a 1956 passenger list mentioning an appropriate female LAURENT:
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L94P-K979-V?i=1250&cc=1923888&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3A2HZG-9G5
 
 Jamjar
 
 
 I think this was a different Doris Laurent - it maybe Doris Sutton who maried Martin Laurent Madera California 8 Feb 1952.
 
 Sandra
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				This is the FIND A GRAVE entry for Don Laurent with the obituary attached to it..
 
 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/azcentral/obituary.aspx?n=don-laurent&pid=186708444
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/183587628
 
 The person who left the flower is the partner who was mentioned in the obituary
 
 Sandra
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				If it is the same Don -  this was the Laurent birth (Don) - Laurent - Gender Male
 Birth Date 2 Sep 1946 - Birth Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Certificate Number 37081
 
 Don married in Imperial, California when he was 20 years old -17 February 1967 - presumably the couple divorced.
 
 Photograph of him in school year books Phoenix Christian High School in 1962.
 
 Sandra
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				There is a marriage William Laurent to a Doris Beck 23 August 1945 Brooklyn, New York City, 
 License Number 12126  ??? Is this a red herring  ???
 
 Sandra
 
 Note  Doris is now deceased 2018
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				Interestingly - On a  London, England, School Admissions and Discharges, 1840-1911 for Selina Maud Pember on 4 July 1904 it gives a partial date of birth as 31 March.  ???
 
 The SSDI shows - Helen Beck - Birth Date 31 Mar 1899 - 7 January 1988  ??? (same person  ???)
 Last Residence:   85351, Sun City, Maricopa, Arizona;
 Issued New York before 1951.
 
 U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007   Helen Beck - Birth Date 31 Mar 1899 - Death Date 7 Jan 1988
 Claim Date 1 Jul 1966
 
 Sandra
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				The image of the marriage of Frederick Cocroft and Maud Pember can be found on Anc...y.
 
 The address that both parties give is 12 Pemberton Terrace. Maud's father Harry Pember, a French Polisher. Frederick is a soldier.
 
 This same address can be found on the incoming (to England) passenger list for the 1932 trip that Maud and her daughter took. Perhaps this might help to connect a few dots.
 
 Frederick served with the Canadian Army (CEF) in WW1. This link is to his complete digitized service record (courtesy of Library and Archives Canada). There are 33 pages. It will be very slow to download.
 
 http://central.bac-lac.gc.ca/.item/?op=pdf&app=CEF&id=B1833-S023
 
 It appears that the daughter named in Don's obit has a tree on Anc....y. If you have a sub, perhaps you might be able to make contact with her. She has Frederick Cocroft and Maud Pember as parents to D M. She also has a death of 2018 for D M but no details to corroborate the info so I have chosen to just use her initials.
 
 PB
 
 
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				A possible for William Laurent - 15 October 1888 - January 1976
 Issue year Before 1951 - Issue State New York
 Last Residence 85002, Phoenix, Maricopa, Arizona.
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:JBG4-J24
 
 WW2 Draft - https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-DRP3-X5T?i=1024&cc=1861144&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AF3Z2-3J4
 
 Sandra
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:29FV-2LW
 
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 Arizona Republic Phoenix, Arizona 11 Jan 1976, Sun    Page 64
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45535104/william_laurent_11_january_1976/
 
 Sandra
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				Obituary Donald Beck (husband of Helen Beck) 
 
 
 Arizona Republic Phoenix, Arizona 12 Dec 1980, Fri   Page 35
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45535281/donald_beck_12_december_1980/
 
 Sandra
 
 10351 W Mission Lane
 
 http://www.rootschat.com/links/01p3k/
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				Hmmm WW2 Draft Card  ??? - Donald Arthur Beck born 2 January 1903 Columbus Ohio- aged 39 years -
 Registration Date 15 Feb 1942 - Registration Place Brooklyn, Kings, New York
 Employer American Machine and Foundry Co
 Weight 150 Complexion Light - Eye Colour Hazel - Hair Colour Brown - Height 5 11
 Next of Kin Helen Beck.
 
 Arthur D. Beck - Birth Date 2 Jan 1903  Columbus, Franklin, Ohio
 Father Arthur Anderson Beck - Mother Lillian M. Kastner
 
 Father listed on FIND A GRAVE - with photograph
 
 Green Lawn Cemetery Columbus, Franklin County, Ohio.
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/68810177
 
 mother -  Lillian Margaret Kastner Beck.
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/68649074/lillian-margaret-beck
 
 sister - Dorothy Margaret Beck
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/67827222/dorothy-margaret-beck
 
 Arthur Beck 1873 - 23 June 1939 Kings New York
 Age:   66 - Certificate Number 13939
 
 parents married Michigan
 
 
 Arthur Beck - 1872 - marriage 8 September 1901 Detroit Wayne Michigan - aged 29 years
 Father George Beck - Mother Catherine Egroff - Spouse Lillian Kastner
 
 1910 census - https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MLYP-CVJ
 
 
 
 Sandra
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 1940 census  Kings, New York.
 
 Donald Beck   37 born Ohio. Radio Oper.
 Helen Beck   37 born England. Housewife.
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:KQ1T-42H
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MY-R8TT?i=13&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQ1T-42H
 
 Sandra
 
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				City Directory - 1952/1956 - 2212 Westward Blvd AAL 3-3792 Arizona - Donald A Beck and Helen Beck - 
 
 Sandra
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				Thanks everyone, I have a feeling that the Laurent link is  a red herring. I cant seem to find a marriage between my Doris Cocroft and a Mr Laurent.
 
 Unless she changed her name to Helen Beck?
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				The image of the marriage of Frederick Cocroft and Maud Pember can be found on Anc...y.
 
 The address that both parties give is 12 Pemberton Terrace. Maud's father Harry Pember, a French Polisher. Frederick is a soldier.
 
 This same address can be found on the incoming (to England) passenger list for the 1932 trip that Maud and her daughter took. Perhaps this might help to connect a few dots.
 
 Frederick served with the Canadian Army (CEF) in WW1. This link is to his complete digitized service record (courtesy of Library and Archives Canada). There are 33 pages. It will be very slow to download.
 
 http://central.bac-lac.gc.ca/.item/?op=pdf&app=CEF&id=B1833-S023
 
 It appears that the daughter named in Don's obit has a tree on Anc....y. If you have a sub, perhaps you might be able to make contact with her. She has Frederick Cocroft and Maud Pember as parents to D M. She also has a death of 2018 for D M but no details to corroborate the info so I have chosen to just use her initials.
 
 PB
 
 
 Ah you are correct, I have messaged her. She seems to sign in regularly so hopefully she can get back to me. I do message quite a lot of people on that site but dont really hear back!
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				Interestingly - On a  London, England, School Admissions and Discharges, 1840-1911 for Selina Maud Pember on 4 July 1904 it gives a partial date of birth as 31 March.  ???
 
 The SSDI shows - Helen Beck - Birth Date 31 Mar 1899 - 7 January 1988  ??? (same person  ???)
 Last Residence:   85351, Sun City, Maricopa, Arizona;
 Issued New York before 1951.
 
 U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007   Helen Beck - Birth Date 31 Mar 1899 - Death Date 7 Jan 1988
 Claim Date 1 Jul 1966
 
 Sandra
 
 
 That is interesting because you know on ancestry when they come up with matches, it keeps coming up with a Helen Beck as a match for Selina Maud Pember
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				Thanks everyone, I have a feeling that the Laurent link is  a red herring. I cant seem to find a marriage between my Doris Cocroft and a Mr Laurent.
 
 Unless she changed her name to Helen Beck?
 
 
 This is worth investigating further - would not be unusual for someone to change there name - to many coincidences not to...........
 
 Sandra
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				Thanks everyone, I have a feeling that the Laurent link is  a red herring. I cant seem to find a marriage between my Cocroft and a Mr Laurent.
 
 
 Not all marriages are online.  I don't think Arizona has many, if any, for the time frame you might be looking at.
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				There is a marriage William Laurent to a Doris Beck 23 August 1945 Brooklyn, New York City, 
 License Number 12126  ??? Is this a red herring  ???
 
 Sandra
 
 Note  Doris is now deceased 2018
 
 
 Reminder reply 25
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 1940 census  Kings, New York.
 
 Donald Beck   37 born Ohio. Radio Oper.
 Helen Beck   37 born England. Housewife.
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:KQ1T-42H
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MY-R8TT?i=13&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQ1T-42H
 
 Sandra
 
 
 Reminder Helen Beck in Kings NY 1940
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				Im always a bit wary of using family search, I dont know how accurate it is. I rarely use it but I havent ever needed american records. 
			
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				Ah I have just created an account on family search, I see that some of the records have images now, I literally hadnt used it for about 20 years when it was just transcriptions
 
 So it might be, that Frederick and Selina divorced and she went and changed her name to Helen. she then married Donald Beck.
 
 Meanwhile Doris stayed living with her father but then later married a Don Laurent, but used Beck as her maiden name instead of Cocroft?
 
 They had one son Don Laurent, who has since died but leaves 2 living children.
 
 How would I access the marriages to check this out, do american marriage records have the father's names on them or the mothers names of the bride and grooms?
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				There is a marriage William Laurent to a Doris Beck 23 August 1945 Brooklyn, New York City, 
 License Number 12126  ??? Is this a red herring  ???
 
 Sandra
 
 Note  Doris is now deceased 2018
 
 
 Reminder reply 25
 
 
 Where do I find this marriage, I cant find it on ancestry?
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				Ah I have just created an account on family search, I see that some of the records have images now, I literally hadnt used it for about 20 years when it was just transcriptions
 
 So it might be, that Frederick and Selina divorced and she went and changed her name to Helen. she then married Donald Beck.
 
 Meanwhile Doris stayed living with her father but then later married a Don Laurent, but used Beck as her maiden name instead of Cocroft?
 
 They had one son Don Laurent, who has since died but leaves 2 living children.
 
 How would I access the marriages to check this out, do american marriage records have the father's names on them or the mothers names of the bride and grooms?
 
 
 Doris stayed with her father (1940 census) but then marries William Laurent as per reply 25 and the reminder  reply 39.  They had one son Don Laurent who passed away in 2017
 
 Don married in Imperial, California when he was 20 years old -17 February 1967 - presumably the couple divorced. (reply 24)
 
 The lady who owns the ancestry tree "C"was a daughter born in 1968. The brother "D" could be a twin - he was born 1968
 
 Doris Cocroft/Beck/Laurent passed away in 2018
 
 Sandra
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				There is a marriage William Laurent to a Doris Beck 23 August 1945 Brooklyn, New York City, 
 License Number 12126  ??? Is this a red herring  ???
 
 Sandra
 
 Note  Doris is now deceased 2018
 
 
 Reminder reply 25
 
 
 Where do I find this marriage, I cant find it on ancestry?
 
 
 The marriage is listed on  New York, Marriage License Indexes, 1907-2018 on ancestry.  You would need to get the actual certificate for more details.
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				Thank you, do you know where I can access the marriage, I cant find it on ancestry. Does it mention her fathers name so that I can prove its Doris Cocroft?
 
 I wonder why Selina Maud changed her name?
 
 Is there a way I can find and order divorce records, I assume she divorced Fred and married Don Beck but is there a marriage for this?
 
 I do find some of the replies hard to read, my apologies, I cant work out what number the post is.
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				There is a marriage William Laurent to a Doris Beck 23 August 1945 Brooklyn, New York City, 
 License Number 12126  ??? Is this a red herring  ???
 
 Sandra
 
 Note  Doris is now deceased 2018
 
 
 Reminder reply 25
 
 
 Where do I find this marriage, I cant find it on ancestry?
 
 
 The marriage is listed on  New York, Marriage License Indexes, 1907-2018 on ancestry.  You would need to get the actual certificate for more details.
 
 
 Sorry I have just seen this, I couldnt find it, I will search again
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				I have now found the marriage you are refering to Sandra but I must be going blind, it looks like its transcribed wrong, it looks like it says Doris Bedler, not Beck. 
 
 Plus there are records for a Doris Beck in New York at the same time as my Doris Cocroft so now Im doubly confused about whether this is a bit of a red herring.
 
 I cant work out why Doris Cocroft would call herself Doris Beck on marriage.
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				This is what the transcription gives .....
 
 William Laurent
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse Doris Beck
 License Number 12126
 
 Doris Beck
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse William Laurent
 License Number 12126
 
 Sandra
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				I also spent a lot of time searching the other Doris Beck yesterday..................
 
 1920 census Cedar Street Brooklyn Assembly District 19, Kings, New York
 
 Lenard Beck 27 - Ida Beck   24 - Doris Beck   0
 
 U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007 - Doris Lillian Beck - Doris Padula
 3 Apr 1919 Birth Place Bklyn, New York - Death Date 11 Apr 2004
 Father Leonard Beck - Mother Ida Bench
 
 Obituary -
 
 Pascack Valley Community Life Westwood, New Jersey
 26 May 2004, Wed    Page A23
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45593553/obituary-for-doris-padula-aged-85/
 
 Sandra
 
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				This is what the transcription gives .....
 
 William Laurent
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse Doris Beck
 License Number 12126
 
 Doris Beck
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse William Laurent
 License Number 12126
 
 Sandra
 
 
 Bride: https://archive.org/details/NYC_Marriage_Index_Brooklyn_1945/page/n113/mode/1up
 
 Groom: https://archive.org/details/NYC_Marriage_Index_Brooklyn_1945/page/n555/mode/1up
 
 
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				I also spent a lot of time searching the other Doris Beck yesterday..................
 
 1920 census Cedar Street Brooklyn Assembly District 19, Kings, New York
 
 Lenard Beck 27 - Ida Beck   24 - Doris Beck   0
 
 U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007 - Doris Lillian Beck - Doris Padula
 3 Apr 1919 Birth Place Bklyn, New York - Death Date 11 Apr 2004
 Father Leonard Beck - Mother Ida Bench
 
 Obituary -
 
 Pascack Valley Community Life Westwood, New Jersey
 26 May 2004, Wed    Page A23
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45593553/obituary-for-doris-padula-aged-85/
 
 Sandra
 
 
 That is very helpful thank you
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				This is what the transcription gives .....
 
 William Laurent
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse Doris Beck
 License Number 12126
 
 Doris Beck
 Marriage License Date 23 Aug 1945
 Marriage License Place Brooklyn, New York City, New York.
 Spouse William Laurent
 License Number 12126
 
 Sandra
 
 
 Bride: https://archive.org/details/NYC_Marriage_Index_Brooklyn_1945/page/n113/mode/1up
 
 Groom: https://archive.org/details/NYC_Marriage_Index_Brooklyn_1945/page/n555/mode/1up
 
 
 
 Thank you
 I think I will have to look into how I order some of these documents. I dont have a cheque book anymore, havent for years, didnt even know places still took them!
 
 They dont seem to have any online ordering options!!
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				This looks like the place to order the 1945 marriage record. It deals with historical New York City marriage records. I don't know who might be qualified to order a historical record but the info is probably there somewhere.
 
 There is various info on this linked page. The very first line says orders up to 1949 are made through DORIS. You click on the DORIS to get to the form.
 
 https://www.cityclerk.nyc.gov/content/marriage-records
 
 PB
 
 Added: you have the certificate number from the index.
 
 Another add: I don't know what parental info you would get from the record but it may be the only way forward at this point.
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				Thanks yes that is my best option at the moment
			
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				I was poking around in the website and it looks like anyone can order a historic marriage record (prior to 1950). 
 
 PB
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				Yes I had a quick look as best i could and it also appears they take cards as payments too, thank goodness because I have no other way of paying!!
 
 I will email them to find out what the process is, one of the other sites quoted above seemed into indicate you can only pay by cheque if you have to do it by post, very cumbersome.
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				Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....Unclaimed Funds.  County of Richmond. This address 534 Cary Avenue is the same as the 1940 census address for Fred and Doris............. ??? ???
 
 
 Daily News New York, New York
 6 Jul 2013, Sat    Page 57
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45601175/doris-cocroft-6-july-2013/
 
 
 1940 census - 534 Cary Avenue  Richmond, New York
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MB-9CMY?personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQYL-SQJ
 
 Sandra
 
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 https://www.osc.state.ny.us/ouf/index.htm
 
 https://ouf.osc.state.ny.us/ouf/_-K6i0qMEazVtjuHbimmIw/_-K7c
 
 https://ouf.osc.state.ny.us/ouf/_-K6i0qMEazSSDNgHRVQaA/_-K7c
 
 Sandra
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				Super find *Sandra*
 
 I note from the links that there is a similar record related to Maud and gives the same address as that for Doris. It looks like they both might be unclaimed life insurance.
 
 What a tangled web this is!
 
 PB
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				Looking through the Cocroft line for any clues but absolutely nothing so far. 
 
 Obituary for the father John Bernard Cocroft
 
 The Kingston Daily Freeman Kingston, New York
 28 Mar 1931, Sat    Page 6
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45606387/john-b-cocroft-28-march-1931/
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140898056/john-b-cocroft
 
 Sandra
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 Mother Annie McDermott Cocroft (second wife of John Cocroft)
 
 The Kingston Daily Freeman Kingston, New York
 31 Jul 1939, Mon   Page 2
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45606542/annie-b-cocroft-31-july-1939/
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140898432/annie-cocroft
 
 Sandra
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				Sister Georgia Tonkings 
 
 The Tampa Tribune Tampa, Florida
 28 Oct 1967, Sat    Page 44
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45603683/obituary-for-georgia-a-tonking-aged/
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140898546/georgia-tonking
 
 Sandra
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				Sister Harriette Cocroft Young
 
 The Courier-News Bridgewater, New Jersey
 7 Aug 1951, Tue    Page 8
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45603328/harriette-cocroft-young-7-august-1951/
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/62203132/harriette-t_-young
 
 Sandra
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 Sister Clara Cocroft/Ham/Ulrich
 
 Tampa Bay Times St. Petersburg, Florida
 20 Feb 1953, Fri    Page 16
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45603508/clara-cocrofthamulrich-20-february/
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/12024636/clara-ulrich
 
 Sandra
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				Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....Unclaimed Funds.  County of Richmond. This address 534 Cary Avenue is the same as the 1940 census address for Fred and Doris............. ??? ???
 
 
 Daily News New York, New York
 6 Jul 2013, Sat    Page 57
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45601175/doris-cocroft-6-july-2013/
 
 
 1940 census - 534 Cary Avenue  Richmond, New York
 
 https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9MB-9CMY?personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AKQYL-SQJ
 
 Sandra
 
 
 
 Gosh that is very confusing though, why would the advert be using her maiden name rather than married name if it was from 2013.
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 If they knew her married name - they would be on the way to finding her. Obviously no one knew that.
 
 Sandra
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 Sister Ada Macalpine
 
 Tampa Bay Times St. Petersburg, Florida 7 May 1960, Sat  -   Page 14
 
 Sandra
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				Brother Robert Hall Cocroft   (Frederick Warren Cocroft only had the one brother) 
 
 The Kingston Daily Freeman Kingston, New York
 15 Sep 1969, Mon    Page 10
 
 https://www.newspapers.com/clip/45605323/obituary-for-robert-hall-cocroft-aged/
 
 
 
 Sandra
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 If they knew her married name - they would be on the way to finding her. Obviously no one knew that.
 
 Sandra
 
 
 Oh yes thats obvious now you say it!
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 Sister Alice Palmer -
 
 SSDI - Alice Palmer - Birth Date 3 Sep 1886 - November 1980
 Last Residence 12401, Kingston, Ulster, New York.
 Issued New York before 1951
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/94371679/alice-palmer
 
 Sandra
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 Sisters Eva (1903) and Flora Grave died 1921 - both single.
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140898759/eva-f-cocroft
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140899884/flora-grace-cocroft
 
 Sandra
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 Sister Daisy Baker - 1875 - 1958
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/140898650/daisy-g-baker
 
 Sandra
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 Sister Laura G Come - White Plains New York  - 30-7-1966
 
 North Chatham, Columbia County, New York.
 
 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/162767443
 
 Sandra