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Title: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: GrannyFlower on Thursday 19 December 13 07:06 GMT (UK)
Does anyone have any information on Thomas and Kate Finlow, of Leicester around 1920's. As i understand they had a son in 1922 (Thomas)then Thomas snr died and Kate remarried a Mr Bates and had more children. So young Thomas became Thomas Finlow-Bates, he married Lillian Wagstaff. She is still living and is my daughter-in-laws grandmother. They had a son Terry who has passed away. I am asking for information on Thomas and Kate on behalf of Terry's daughter (my daughter-in-law)who now lives in New Zealand
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: lizdb on Thursday 19 December 13 10:58 GMT (UK)
Are you sure Thomas died and Kate remarried?

Because I see this marriage -

Jan/Feb/Mar 1923
Leicester
Ref 7a  407
Thomas Finlow to Kate Bates

Looks more as if Thomas was born prior to the marriage.
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: lizdb on Thursday 19 December 13 11:03 GMT (UK)
Not seeing a birth for a Thomas Finlow around 1922
There is a Thomas Bates though.

I think he was born Thomas Bates, to mother Kate Bates (either illegitimate or she was previously married), then Kate Bates married Thomas Finlow and he added his stepfathers surname to his to make Finlow-Bates.

To confirm this theory you would need probably to get some certs.
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: AMBLY on Thursday 19 December 13 11:44 GMT (UK)
Hi

If the son (ie: the husband of the still-living grandmother of your D-I-L) is the gentleman who  passed away in 2003, with a recorded dob 25 Aug 1922, registered in Leicester - his birth could  have been registered Sep Qtr or maybe the Dec Qtr of 1922 (if the dob is correct, that is!). That would fit with the Birth found under BATES in 1922, The mms for that birth is FORDER.

http://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl

Not seeing any BIRTHS for FINLOW mms BATES either, post the 1923 marriage  or mms FORDER?

PROBATE: Kate FINLOW died 22 June 1960, widow of 34 Porter Street Leicester died at Hillcrest, 2 Swain Street, Leicester.  Admin 11 Oct 1960, to Leonard BATES Plasterer, £4047, 4s, 5d

Her death was registered Leicester, Jun Qtr 1960 :  Kate FINLOW age 80 (born abt 1880). If this is her then in 1923 on marrying FINLOW, she was age abt 37. 

She may have been widow FINLOW for many years, if this is her husband:
DEATH, Thomas FINLOW age 49 years, Reg Jun Qtr 1928, Leicester.

Cheers
AMBLY
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: AMBLY on Thursday 19 December 13 12:00 GMT (UK)
Kate's first husband was killed in WW1?
Pvt H BATES, died 2nd October 1918. Husband of Kate Finlow (formerly Bates) of 34 Porter St. Leicester
http://twgpp.org/information.php?id=2884007

The death predates the birth of  Thomas Jnr in 1922.....

MARRIAGE: Leicester - on same page, Dec Qtr 1903, Nottingham
Harvey BATES
Kate FORDER

BIRTH:
Leonard BATES, Mar Qtr 1910, Leicestershire

Cheers
AMBLY

Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: AMBLY on Thursday 19 December 13 12:29 GMT (UK)
Service Record:
Harvey BATES  age 33,  of 137 Kensington St, Leicester
Enlisted 1915 to the Royal Engineers, Chatham #224224
Married, Civil Occupation: Joiner
NOK: Wife, Kate BATES of the same address initially, then  later changed on the record to being of 34 Porter Street.
Particulars of Marriage:
Bride: Kate FORDEN, Spinster - whom he married  8 Nov 1903 at  Nottingham. Present address of wife: at the enlistment: 137 Kensington St, later changed to 34 Porter Street.
Particulars of Children
Harvey b 3 Apr 1906 at 147 Curzon St, Leicester
Albert b 15 Jul 1907 at 147 Curzon St, Leicester
Leonard b 3 Feb 1910 at 137 Kensington St
Plus 2 more males, b 1914 and 1916 - not naming, they could still be alive.

Cheers
AMBLY

Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: AMBLY on Thursday 19 December 13 12:35 GMT (UK)
So it appears, your DIL's grandfather was illegitimate - in as much as his mother was an 'un-remarried' widow BATES, nee FORDER when he was conceived and born. His birth registration shows a middle initial of F. This could be for FORDER or for FINLOW - if the latter (you'll prob need the Birth Cert to find out), then highly likely Thomas FINLOW was his natural father (and himself *perhaps* not free to marry Kate prior to their 1923 marriage).

Cheers
AMBLY
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: GrannyFlower on Thursday 19 December 13 19:26 GMT (UK)
Thank you everyone, It does appear I have the families in the wrong order ::). First came Bates and all the children then came Finlow with the one child. Even with my mistake you have given us sooo much more information. She will be wrapped to have some names for her tree and to know which line to follow. :) Poor Kate widowed twice with so many children.
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: willsy on Thursday 19 December 13 20:26 GMT (UK)
Baptisms

St Matthews
BATES   HARVEY FREDERICK   1906   HARVEY & KATE   03-Jun

St Mark
BATES   FRANK   HARVEY & KATE    1914   25-Nov
BATES   LEONARD   HARVEY & KATE   1914   24-Nov
BATES       ALBERT   HARVEY & KATE   1914   25-Nov

Can only look up to 1921 in these churches


Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: willsy on Thursday 19 December 13 20:49 GMT (UK)
Gilroes Cemetery

Kk   66   

FINLOW   Thomas   49   34 Porter Street / North Evington Infirmary   Leicester   17-May   1928

others in the grave

CHAMBERS   Zoe   6w   6 Church Street   Leicester   15-Jan   1910

EASTHOPE   Mary Jane   76   131 Repton Street   Leicester   17-Dec   1945

EASTHOPE   Stanton William   80   131 Repton Street / Hillcrest   Leicester   12-Jan   1949

There are only 3 Finlow's I can find so far

Rr   54   RUSSELL   William   57   1 Queens Grove, Brandon Street / RI   Leicester   22-Apr   1938
Rr   54   FINLOW   Elizabeth   76   13 Baker Street / Hillcrest   Leicester   23-Mar   1948
Rr   54   FINLOW   Horatio Charles   78   58 Brandon Street / Royal Infirmary   Leicester   
24-Dec   1949

He is from Stafford, look like they married 1898 Stafford, Elizabeth Williams with another entry as Furlow



Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: willsy on Thursday 19 December 13 21:17 GMT (UK)
Apologies for going a little back but it's the address that keeps popping up

Welford Road Cemetery

Q   1935   F   
TARRY   CHARLES   1881   SEP   27   53   NEW HUMBERSTONE   LEICESTERSHIRE   47656

RANDLE   SARAH   1910   MAY   14   80   22 LEWIN STREET   LEICESTER   97857

TARRY   ROBERT   1941   APR   2   72   2 SWAIN STREET / 297 WELFORD ROAD   LEICESTER   126984

FORDER   CHARLOTTE   1946   JUL   1   85   HILLCREST, SWAIN STREET / 34 PORTER STREET   LEICESTER   129700

I looked at census returns and Charlotte is most likely her mother, maiden name Tarry
Title: Re: Finlow or Finlow-Bates
Post by: GrannyFlower on Friday 20 December 13 02:13 GMT (UK)
My DIL very impressed with speed of all this new information ...as am I!!! She said yes she can remember her father talking about Porter Street. Thomas Finlow was born in Salford and going on age at Death around 1879. I  have found a reg birth for Thomas Finlow first 1/4 that year (Thanks for the free BMD web site). Brilliant!
Wow Willsy that's really cool.....I think if my husband went off to war  :'( and left me with 5 sons I'd go home to Mum too!! ;)  or did mum moved in?
Have searched also for marriages Forder and Tarry. It appears Charlotte Tarry married Fredrick Forder in the 4th quarter of 1878. Now looking for birth and death.
D-I-L also said that Charlie Bates (1916), who was Thomas Finlow-Bates's half brother, the youngest of the Bates children, married Lillian's (Thomas's wife) sister.
Thomas apparently called himself Bates not Finlow-Bates most of the time as he was a partner in a Plastering Company with his half brothers.