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Title: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: yvonne burgess on Monday 14 January 13 22:23 GMT (UK)
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Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: IgorStrav on Monday 14 January 13 23:33 GMT (UK)
Very sorry to hear that.  It must have been an upsetting discovery.  >:(
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Yasmina4 on Monday 14 January 13 23:42 GMT (UK)
Oh dear. This research is not all joy .  Hugs Sandra
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Billyblue on Tuesday 15 January 13 06:03 GMT (UK)
As this is on 'the lighter side' I wonder how far did she fall?  Was it a ground floor window?

Dawn M
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: yvonne burgess on Tuesday 15 January 13 23:07 GMT (UK)
'Fraid not!  I didn't investigate further but crinolines should have acted as a partial parachute if she was wearing those.


Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Jeuel on Saturday 02 February 13 18:13 GMT (UK)
It generally is sad finds in family research.

The most tragic side of my family is my Gloucestershire gt gt gt grandfather John Mealing.  His son William killed his fiancee in a fit of insanity and spent the rest of his life in Broadmoor Criminal Lunatic Asylum.  John's daughter (my gt gt grandmother) Ann had twins that died and she herself died at the age of 38 after childbirth.  John's other children left the village and several went to Glamorganshire - one travelled as far as the United States.  When widowed, John tried to commit suicide by cutting his throat - but he failed.  He was nursed at home by his daughter but against his and her will he was taken to the Workhouse in Cirencester, where he died 20 days after his attempt to kill himself.  That's always struck me as desperately sad.
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Yasmina4 on Sunday 03 February 13 11:32 GMT (UK)
Did you know some of the story before you started to investigate?  Poor lad was not born
under a lucky star.  It is very sad but you have the satisfaction of knowing it all now.  Sandra
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: ronoc on Sunday 03 February 13 11:56 GMT (UK)


Mine to.  age 70 great-grandmother pushed out of window by her daughter-in-law. 30ft drop.  All because the daughter in law thought she was "tipsey"

 :( :(
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Yasmina4 on Sunday 03 February 13 12:45 GMT (UK)
Oh dear Ronoc.  What did they do to DIL?
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: groom on Sunday 03 February 13 13:10 GMT (UK)
I have two in my tree - my great x 3 maternal grandmother managed to set herself alight when filling an oil lamp. Apparently she over filled it and tipped the excess onto the fire. It caught her clothes alight and she died a week later.

My paternal great grandmother died after being thrown into the Thames whilst watching the launch of the HMS Albion. A jetty on which hundreds of people were standing collapsed under the force of the backwash from the waves. She and my great grandfather were rescued, but she died a few days later from pneumonia. She is buried with the rest of the victims and her name is on the monument erected in their memory. She left behind 7 children, my grandmother was the eldest at 15 and the youngest was 3.
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Ruskie on Sunday 03 February 13 13:18 GMT (UK)
'Fraid not!  I didn't investigate further but crinolines should have acted as a partial parachute if she was wearing those.

That sounds a bit flippant. :o

I'm surprised you haven't tried to investigate this further. I'd be desperate to find out the circumstances if I were you.

Crinolines were in vogue in the 1850s/1860's so I'm not sure if that works out time wise with your great grandmother?  :-\

Some very sad stories always emerge when this subject is broached.  :( I think we all have at least one in our family history - often many more ....
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: Emjaybee on Sunday 03 February 13 14:18 GMT (UK)
My "Uncle"  6yrs of age (well he would have been) was burned to death at about 8am in 1900, when drying his wet nightshirt before the fire. He ran down the garden screaming and a neighbour came to his aid. The newspaper report says he was not taken to hospital immediately as it was Bank Holiday. The poor child was left all day as a carter could not be found to take him. Finally arriving at the Infirmary at 7.30pm, he died the next day

It is said the fact that he was delayed in getting to hospital did not accelerate his death. My mother never mentioned him, I wonder if she knew, she was born a year later.

Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: jacquelineve on Sunday 03 February 13 16:29 GMT (UK)
My grandparents buried their daughter 10 days before my dad was born.She was 17 mths old,
physically + mentally handicapped. They already had five children and were living in lodgings (two
rooms)

Hard times.

Jackie
Title: Re: Saddest find in my tree-Great Grandma fell out of window.
Post by: snowyw on Sunday 03 February 13 19:49 GMT (UK)
I always think the saddest thing is when you find a young child, who probably knew no better, died of an accident.  My grandad's brother died age eighteen months having fallen into the fire. The story went that he was sitting in the high chair and my grandad's other brother aged three, knocked the chair over and the little one fell into the fire.  His death certificate stated that he died of shock due to the incident.  The incident was never spoken of and until I found the death, I thought the child was a girl.  I assume the two (remaining) brothers never forgot the incident.:'(