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Title: Family xmas traditions
Post by: audrey on Friday 17 December 04 15:07 GMT (UK)
Hi all as this is a worldwide community just wondered what things you all do at Xmas thats been passed down the generations .I have just got a table cloth out that has been used  in our family since  the middle 1800s it was made by my dads grandmother and came out in his family every Xmas day.When I inherited it in 1960 I said I would put it away safely and my dad said no please use it on Xmas day and I do .
audrey
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: JillJ on Friday 17 December 04 19:09 GMT (UK)
Audrey,

What a lovely thing to do!   Mind you, if it were my family it would be ruined very quickly - every tablecloth I own has red wine stains on it!   The more they drink the more they spill and the less they care!

Jill
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: GRACELAND on Friday 17 December 04 19:19 GMT (UK)
we always play Elvis Christmas songs !!        ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: c w on Saturday 18 December 04 00:49 GMT (UK)
Strange as it may seem every Christmas evening my husband retires to the garden and has a bonfire, with all the christmas packaging.  All the boxes wrapping paper, etc., he just cannot abide the mess.

I must admit I find it rather strange  myself ?!?
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Geoff of Devon on Saturday 18 December 04 17:10 GMT (UK)
We always make homemade sweets that we can give to people as pressies.... the favourites are always the peppermint creams and the dates with cherries!  :)
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Darcy2016 on Saturday 18 December 04 18:01 GMT (UK)
We always make the much-mocked fruit cake!   Family tradition...and it DOES taste good...especially the marzipan!   :D
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Geoff of Devon on Saturday 18 December 04 18:06 GMT (UK)
Mmmmmm. CAAAAKKKKKEEEE. Yummy.....I love CAKE me.  :D ;D :D
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Su on Saturday 18 December 04 21:14 GMT (UK)
Can I come to your house for Christmas Geoff? those peppermint creams sound de licious...  :D

Su

Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Susie1 on Saturday 18 December 04 22:59 GMT (UK)
Hi all
Our tradition is Christmas tree presents.  When I was a child we always had a small tree present that was kept on the tree till after tea on Christmas day.  When I moved up north nobody up here had heard of it, but I kept it up with my children.  My husband died 3 years ago on xmas day, and I have a new partner now, he comes from the south and had moved up north and he had always done the same with the tree presents.  Must just be a southern thing.
Sue
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: GRACELAND on Sunday 19 December 04 15:57 GMT (UK)
Mrs G s family ,
     Has a thing that they never wash clothes on new years day .

      As there is a saying that " wash on new years day wash a member of family away ""           :o :o

   Her Nan did wash one year ,and in that year five family members died !!!           :o :o :o
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: legs11 on Sunday 19 December 04 16:07 GMT (UK)
My brother in law is English, what part he is from I don't know, but can someone tell me if this is a true traditon of the English or where this may come from.

The xmas presents aren't open until after a hot xmas lunch and the men do the washing up afterwards.

My brother in law does this every year that it is their turn to do xmas and has always said that it was a traditon from where his family came from in England.

legs11
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: Susie1 on Sunday 19 December 04 16:49 GMT (UK)
I was brought up that the stockings on the end of the bed were for when Iwoke up, but the main presents were had after we were washed, dressed and had breakfast.  I originally came from London.
Sue
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: JillJ on Sunday 19 December 04 18:03 GMT (UK)
can someone tell me if this is a true traditon of the English or where this may come from.

The xmas presents aren't open until after a hot xmas lunch and the men do the washing up afterwards.


In my family the men always do the washing up and always have done - which is only fair when the women have slaved over a hot stove to cook the turkey and all its trimmings.

Children open the gifts in their Christmas stockings as soon as they wake up (usually in the middle of the night!) but in my family the main presents are opened, very often accompanied by a glass or two of Bucks Fizz, as soon as everyone has 'surfaced'.   Some families have different times for present opening but it is always when all the family are gathered together.

Jill
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: bel_jon68 on Wednesday 22 December 04 22:48 GMT (UK)
My husband's from Birmingham (UK) and his parents still carry on the Christmas tree present tradition.

What does everyone tell their kids about Santa?   I was brought up believing that Santa brought stocking presents in the middle of the night, delivered to the end of your bed after you'd gone to sleep (which we then opened about 4.00am!) and that all the other presents were from family and friends.

However, my husband was brought up to believe that ALL the presents were sent by magic to Santa and he delivered them to under the tree on Christmas Eve. 

Unfortunately, he got to our eldest son first and I have real difficulty remembering to back up his version of the Santa story!!!

Bel
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: bel_jon68 on Wednesday 22 December 04 22:50 GMT (UK)
...and I wish we had the tradition of the men doing the washing up!!!!! (to be fair, I'm not actually allowed to cook Christmas dinner because I would incinerate it!!) :-[ :-[

Bel
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: casalguidi on Wednesday 22 December 04 23:08 GMT (UK)
Until I married, I never saw a Christmas present at home until we woke Christmas morning.

My kids are 24, 17, 13 and this is the first year that they have actually seen presents in the house (wrapped of course!).  The trouble is we're getting too tired to wait for them to all go to sleep Christmas Eve before smuggling the presents in - from a neighbour and the car!

One year my husband was in hospital over Christmas - to cut a long story short, our middle child (then 8) made me get up in the middle of the night because he could see santa flying over the rooftops!  Everytime I got to the window he disappeared and so it went on ................. .  He's 17 now and I'm sure he still believes that he really did see him!

They've always had pillowcases (like I did until I married) or stockings on the bed and the main presents downstairs as soon as they get up.

Merry Christmas everyone and happy hunting in 2005

Casalguidi
Title: Re: Family xmas traditions
Post by: RJ_Paton on Monday 27 December 04 23:11 GMT (UK)
Have you ever wondered just how many of our "Xmas traditions" are actually modern contrivances ?

How different are our xmas days to thos of our ancestors ?

Happy holiday season to all  ;D