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Title: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 14:33 GMT (UK)
Hi,

I'm doing some research for my neighbour and I'm stuck!!

His great grandparents were Mary Alice Obey and Edgar Alexander Black.  I believe they married in Selhurst, Surrey on September 9th 1898.  I have found them on the 1901 census...

24 Rothesay Road, Parish of Croydon

Edgar A Black, 24, Head, straw-hat wearhouseman, born Brixton
Mary A Black, wife, 26, born Brixton
Leslie A G Black, son 1, born Norwood
Ruby A F Black, dau, 4 mths, born Norwood.

I have been unable to find anything more about Mary Alice Black nee Obey.

Any help in finding her parents and/or her on an earlier census would be greatly appreciated

TIA
Legs
xxxx
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 14:46 GMT (UK)
Hi Alllegs,

Think I might be onto something...transcribed as 'Abey'...

1881

8 Vaughan Road, Brixton, Lambeth

George C Obey, Head, 33, Commercial Traveller, Mddx Hackney
Mary Obey, Wife, 31, Mddx Marylebone
George F Obey, Son, 8, Surrey Lambeth
Mary A Obey, Daughter, 6, Surrey Lambeth
Florence Obey, Daughter, 4, Surrey Lambeth
Maud E Obey, Daughter, 7mths, Surrey Lambeth
Eleanor Perryman, Boarder, 67, Kent Faversham

RG11/618 Pg 38

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 14:50 GMT (UK)
1891

6 Vaughan Road, Brixton, Lambeth

William Walker, Head, 76, Retired Civil Engineer, Derby??
Elizabeth Walker, Wife, 68, Sussex Brighton
Elizabeth Samson, Daughter, M, 35, Surrey
Geo J Walker, Son, 33, Living on own means, Surrey
Geo F Obey, Grandson, 18, Clerk, Surrey
Maud E Obey, Granddaughter, 10, Surrey
Elizabeth Samson, Granddaughter, 2, Surrey

RG12/415 Pg 13 & 14

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 14:51 GMT (UK)
Marriage J/A/S quarter 1898
Mary Alice Obey Croydon 2a 572

You could get cert to find her father's name plus her address at time of marriage
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 14:54 GMT (UK)
Birth J/F/M quarter
1875
Mary Alice Obey Lambeth 1d 532
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:00 GMT (UK)
Marriage o/N/D quarter 1872
George Charles Obey London C 1c 67

Looking at the census in 1881 when she is 8, it looks like her Dad is George C, so this looks like his marriage

Getting the cert would give you more details incl of course wife's name (hopefully Mary!)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:03 GMT (UK)
Birth J/F/M quarter 1848
George Charles Obey - Hackney 111 202

Get this cert and you will find his parents!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:04 GMT (UK)
Sorry, Allegs I am spending your money like water on all these certs!!!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:05 GMT (UK)
Can't find Mary Alice in 1891 at the moment.... ::)

1871

Cromwell Road, Peterborough St Mark

William J Croft, Head, 30, Engine Fitter, Cambs Wisbech
Maryann Croft, Wife, 22, Northants Peterborough
Arthur S Croft, Son, 3, Northants Peterborough
Clara Croft, Daughter, 7mths, Northants Peterborough
George C Obey, Lodger, Un, 23, Railway Clerk, Mddx West Hackney Stake? N

RG10/1518 Pg 22

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:06 GMT (UK)
Emma, Liz,

Thank you so much for your speedy reply.  Thats all great.  I will whizz nextdoor now and pass all this info on.  It's greatly appreciated.

Love
Legs
xxxx

PS don't worry Liz, it'm my neighbours money not mine!!!  hehe!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:10 GMT (UK)
1871

6 Vaughan Road, Brixton, Lambeth

William Walker, Head, 56, Civil Engineer, Derbysh Newhall
Elizabeth Walker, Wife, 48, Sussex Brighton
Mary Walker, Daughter, 21, Mddx Marylebone
Alfred W Walker, Son, 19, Civil Engineers Clerk, Mddx Paddington
John S Walker, Son, 17, Clerk to East India Agents, Surrey Newington
Elizabeth Walker, Daughter, 15, Scholar, Surrey Newington
George F Walker, Son, 13, Scholar, Surrey Newington
Sarah A Walker, Daughter, 9, Scholar, Surrey Newington
Mary Sams, Mother in Law, W, 79, Formerly Butchers Wife, Somerset Yeovil

RG10/689 Pg 23 & 24

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:18 GMT (UK)
1861

12 Bolton Ter, Newington St Mary

William Walker, Head, 46, Surveyor of Sewers, Derbyshire Newhall
Elizabeth Walker, Wife, 38, Sussex Brighton
Mary Walker, Daughter, 11, Scholar, Mddx Marylebone
Alfred W Walker, Son, 9, Scholar, Mddx Paddington
John J Walker, Son, 7, Scholar, Newington
Elizabeth Walker, Daughter, 5, Scholar, Newington
George H Walker, Son, 3, Newington
Walker, Daughter, 3days, Newington
Mary Sams, Mother in Law, W, 69, Formerly Butcher's Wife, Somerset Yeovil
Mary Redfern, Servant, 16, House Servant, Derbys Newhall
- modified!

RG09/344 Pg 41

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:21 GMT (UK)
WOW Emma,

You're on a roll!  I can't keep up!

Many Thanks
Legs
xxxx
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:26 GMT (UK)
It's what Saturday afternoons are for!!!  ;D

Can't find anything concrete for George Obey before 1871....there is a George Obey born at the right time, but he is listed as born in East Peckham Kent (Living in West Malling, Kent) in 1861 & Teston Kent (Living in Teston Kent) in 1851.

However, the Walkers were easier to follow!!

1851

38 Carlisle St, Marylebone

William Walker, Head, 36, Bricklayer, Derby Newhall
Elizabeth Walker, Wife, 28, Sussex Brighton
Mary Walker, Daughter, 1, Mddx Marylebone

HO107/1491 Pg 15

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:28 GMT (UK)
So it loks like Mary (senior's) maiden name was Walker

Just to help confirm that:

Marriage O/N/D 1872
Mary Walker London C 1c 67


Goes nicely with the George C marriage I found earlier!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:34 GMT (UK)
Fabulous!,  I'm so excited and this lot don't even belong to me!!   ;D

The Walker's seem to have been from all over the place and Elizabeth Walkers mother must be Mary Sams from Yeovil.....  I wonder how they all met....!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:36 GMT (UK)
Death
1882 J/F/M quarter
George Charles Obey age 33 Hackney (forgot to note reference, sorry)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:38 GMT (UK)
In 1851, Mary Sams was visiting a Boxall Family in Brighton....

Anyhow, (Sorry if we cross over with this one!)

Obey, George Charles
Death
Age 33
Q March 1882
Hackney
Greater London London Middlesex
Vol 1b
Page 333

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:41 GMT (UK)
Emma,

I'm just looking at the original of the 1871 for George Obey....  Can you work out what it says on the far right under the deaf/dumb etc column?  I can't read it.

Ta muchly
Legs
xxxx
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:44 GMT (UK)
Me neither.... ::)  State/Stake/Stoke N....ah...Stoke Newington...is that anywhere near Hackney?

Regards, Emma ;)

P.S.  Think I'm going to be finding snippets on this family all afternoon...keep your shoes on!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 15:46 GMT (UK)
Yes, Stoke Newington is near Hackney
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:50 GMT (UK)
Excellent!!

You're both fantastic!

Any idea how I can find out who Mr Sams the butcher, wife of Mary from Yeovil was??!!!

Also i can't find the Walkers in the 1871, Emma.....  am I typing in the wrong piece, folio page etc?
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:52 GMT (UK)
I tell you, my geographical knowledge of London/Middlesex/Surrey is shocking...my ancestors would be so proud!   :-[

To fill in William Walker on the census records...

1881

168 Coldharbour Lane, Lambeth, London

William Walker, Head, 65, Civil Engineer, Derbys Newhall
Elizabeth Walker, Wife, 58, Sussex Brighton
Alfred W Walker, Son, 29, Surveyor, Mddx Paddington
John J Walker, Son, 27, East India Merchant, Surrey Newington
Elizabeth Walker, Daughter, 25, Surrey Newington
George F Walker, Son, 23, Surveyor, Surrey Newington
Sarah A Walker, Daughter, 19, Surrey Newington
Mary Sams, Mother in Law, 89, Somerset Yeovil
Ernest E Obey, Grandson, 2, Surrey Lambeth

RG11/611 Pg 21

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:54 GMT (UK)
Just looking at the post about Mary Sams visiting the Boxall family in Brighton in 1851.... Well I was thinking maybe they are of some relation as her daugther Elizabeth was born in Brighton....? hmmmmmm......  Just think out loud!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 15:56 GMT (UK)
Think I've found William Walker and Elizabeth Sams marriage at St Nicholas,  Brighton on Dec 24th 1848.   Elizabeth's father was James Sams.
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 15:57 GMT (UK)
Longevity is rife in this family...wonder what their secret was?!

1901

6 Vaughan Road, Brixton, Lambeth

Wm Walker, Head, W, 86, Derbys Newhall
Elizabeth Samson, Daughter, 44, Surrey Newington
Ambrose Samson, Son in Law, 54, Engineer, Aylesford? Kent

RG13/431 Pg 14


Walker, William
Deaths
Age 90
Q Dec 1904
Lambeth
Greater London London Surrey
Vol 1d
Pg 243

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 16:01 GMT (UK)
Sams....Samson  I'm confused...did they lose the 'on' somewhere?!

Oh no I've un-confused my self...that Elizabeth is the daughter of Wm Walker not the Wife who was nee Sams....

Flipping nora!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:05 GMT (UK)
Blimey...it will become clear in the end...I hope.

James Sams (Butcher!), Father of Elizabeth Sams married to William Walker....well, he had passed away before 1851....


Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: lizdb on Saturday 11 March 06 16:06 GMT (UK)
Sorry to backtrack a few generations (this is all moving a bit too fast!!) -
I looked for a death for Mary Obey from 1881 to 1891, because, if you remember (so much has happened since then!) the children were with George Charles and Mary in 1881, but by 1891 are with granny and grandad. We found Dad George Charles's death and I wondered if Mum had died too.
I found nothing - so looks like she is still around in 1891 somewhere (may have remarried), and the children are just staying with grandparents.

I must go now as hubby just phoned to say he is on the way home from footy!!!!!!
Next time I go on line you will probably be back to about 1066 at this rate!!!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 16:10 GMT (UK)
Thank you for all your help Liz, it is greatly appreciated.  I'd not even realised that the parents were missing!!

1066 - I wish!!! hahaha!

Thank you for putting me straight Emma!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:18 GMT (UK)
Mary Obey (Mother, Senior....where was the imagination?!) was alive and kicking in 1901...just need to pinpoint her in 1891

1901

171 Selhurst Road, Croydon

Mary Obey, Head, W, 51, Living on own means, Mddx Marylebone
Stanley Obey, Son, 22, Surrey Brixton
Maud Obey, Daughter, 20, Surrey Brixton
Ethel Obey, Sister, 50, Mddx Tottenham

RG13/649 Pg 14


Just one question...who is Ethel?!  ::)

Regards, Emma ;)

Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 16:22 GMT (UK)
No idea Emma....!!  Who's Stanley too, I don't remember seeing his name before...?  Maybe I just missed him!

Maybe Ethel was George's sister and Mary's sister in law perhaps?  Unless Ethel was Mary's sister and married an Obey too?  Does it say if she is married , widowed etc?
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:30 GMT (UK)
She's down as being single...which points to her being George's sister...if she's been mistranscribed, I can safely say I've not seen her before....!

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:34 GMT (UK)
Ernest E Obey (on 1881 with William Walker)  turns out to be Ernest Stanley Obey...I think..

1891

Freeman Orphan School, Brixton, Lambeth

Ernest Stanley Obey, Pupil, 12, Camberwell

RG12/416 Pg 5

I assuming he was there as his Father had died??

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 16:35 GMT (UK)
Fab Emma,

You're a star!  Maybe we can find Geroge in an earlier census now we've got a possibility for his sister......
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:55 GMT (UK)
I love it when this happens....!!  ;D  Thought they could hide?!  They thought wrong...!

1851

10 Tottenham Sq, West Hackney

John Thomas Oby, Head, 36, Coachman, Hampstead Mddx
Jane Eliza Oby, Wife, 21, Thackwell? Mddx
George Charles Oby, Son, 3, Thackwell? Mddx
Mary Vaughan, Lodger, 70, Parish? ??, St Leonards?

HO107/1504 Pg 8

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 16:59 GMT (UK)
Obey, John Thomas
Death
Q December 1855
Bethnal Green
Greater London London Middlesex
Vol 1c
Pg 155?

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 17:02 GMT (UK)
Obey, John Thomas
??
Marriage
Q June 1847
Hackney
Greater London London Middlesex
Vol 3
Pg 135

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 17:21 GMT (UK)
Awesome!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 17:24 GMT (UK)
Eliza Jane Long is a possible for marriage to John Thomas Obey...they shared a page anyway!

Have a feeling that Jane/Eliza Obey would've remarried between 1855 & 1861...perhaps a young George Charles Obey would've taken her new name too?  Either that, or been mis-written/transcribed in the 1861 census?

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Saturday 11 March 06 17:33 GMT (UK)
I've had a look for Ethel Obey too, she'd have been born approx 1851, obv after the census.  I can't find her on the 1861 either.

I thin they must have taken their step fathers surname - if only we knew what that was.....
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 17:41 GMT (UK)
Marriages
Quarter December 1856 - Islington

Eliza Jane Obey
Johannah Russell
Henry Johnson
Robert Clark

Vol 1b, Page 331


That's what I've got so far...can't find her under either name yet in 1861...no doubt I'll come across another Eliza/Jane Obey...!

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Saturday 11 March 06 18:55 GMT (UK)
Florence Jane Obey
Birth
Q Dec 1876
Lambeth
Greater London London Surrey
Vol 1d
Pg 536


1891

Royal Masonic Institute for Girls, West Battersea

Florence J Obey, Boarder, 14, Camberwell London

RG12/439 Pg 2



Obey, Florence Jane
Chatelain, Victor Albert
Marriage
Q June 1899
Lambeth
Greater London London Surrey
Vol 1d
Pg 811

Have found the other two people on the page - married.  Found Victor Albert in 1901...says he's single....

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: alllegs on Sunday 12 March 06 11:03 GMT (UK)
Thank you Emma,

They must have been quite well off if the kids were all at boarding school!

Do we know where Florence is on the 1901?  I wonder if there were 2 Victor's?

If not I wonder what happened there.....a bit of scandal maybe?!!
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: Emsworthy on Sunday 12 March 06 12:14 GMT (UK)
Couldn't find Florence for love nor money in 1901  ::) ....guess it'll take a fine tooth comb....

Regards, Emma ;)
Title: Re: Mary Alice Obey
Post by: rsgenat on Saturday 06 January 24 05:01 GMT (UK)
Just looking at the post about Mary Sams visiting the Boxall family in Brighton in 1851.... Well I was thinking maybe they are of some relation as her daugther Elizabeth was born in Brighton....? hmmmmmm......  Just think out loud!

Hi,
That Boxall family are in my wife's tree.
Mary Sams was with her Daughter Mary Ann Boxall (Nee Sams)
Mary Ann Sams Married John Boxall on 4th Dec 1836 in Brighton
The mother Mary must have also been a Butcher as in Occupation it reads "Independant (retired butcher)"
Which is John's job.
cheers russ